i use to trust him, and now hes acting like i owe him money or something, and he still wants sex, but i already told him i'd rather kick his left nut:( oh sorry, was that indelicate of me........
2006-08-30 18:16:40 · 30 answers · asked by darkangel1111 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he opens his mouth
2006-08-30 18:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by melissa r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the top seven ways to tell if someone is lying. If your man does any of these, I'd say he's lying. If so...kick his *** out to the curb!
Seven Common Signs of Lying
1.No eye contact. Generally, if someone is lying they will not look you in the eye, at least during a certain part of the conversation. Normally, people make eye contact for at least half of a conversation, so anything less than this could be suspicious. One caveat: there are some people who will take great pains to make eye contact with you even if they're lying, simply to make you think they're not.
2. Change in voice. A change in the pitch of a person's tone, or a lot of stammering (umm, ah), or throat clearing could indicate a lie.
3.Unusual body language. If a person taps their foot a lot, fidgets with their hands, raises their shoulders, turns away from you or brings their hand to their face (to touch their chin or nose, etc.) -- in other words, if they act nervous or uncomfortable -- it could mean they're telling a lie. Also watch out for blushing (or becoming pale) and increased blinking.
4.Something sounds fishy. Making statements that contradict each other, are inconsistent or don't sound quite right are usually part of a lie.
5.Overly defensive. Sometimes when a person is lying they will become extremely defensive, refusing to answer any questions and even accusing you of lying. This may mean they have something to hide.
6.Changes subject easily. If someone is lying and you change the subject, chances are high that they'll go right along with it. A person telling the truth, however, will likely ask why you changed the subject and want to go back to it.
7.Humor or sarcasm. A guilty person will often try to change the subject using humor or sarcasm.
Of course, no one behavior can tell for sure whether or not someone is telling the truth or lying. While you should trust your instinct, if you're not sure it's best to try to get some evidence to back up your accusation. Rather than relying on a specific behavior, catching a liar in the act is best done by watching their normal behaviors. When those behaviors suddenly change, that's when a lie has likely been told.
2006-08-31 01:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Blair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a lot of man haters on here lol. You can read body language all you want. It does necessarily mean that he is lying to you. Some people fidget because they are on fat burners. others have low self confidence and can't look you in the eye. Best thing to do is investigate/evaluate the situation and go on from there. Good Luck
2006-08-31 01:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Madness_75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he talks look to see if his breathing gets deeper or his voice cracks, nostrils flare, blinks alot, stutters, story is all over the place, or hes immedietly on the defensive. ask him a question where you know hell be honest with and watch for these things. then ask him what you think hes lying about and see what he does or doesnt do when hes telling the truth
2006-08-31 01:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a way to judge if a person is lying by their eyes and if they shift them a certain way. I forget which way (left or right) it is but do some researching.
2006-08-31 01:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by t_d_bauer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good indicator is body language. Watch his eyes and his hands. Also his mouth. If his mouth is moving, then he's probably lying.
2006-08-31 01:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by starmoishe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is speaking he is lying you should kick him and his left nut to the curb.
2006-08-31 01:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies please!! No need for all these hostilitys!!
A guy will play upon your sympathy for as long as you allow it. Sometimes its hard to recognize whats going on because he has you blinded with his B.S. and charm. Learn how to read the signs early and it will save alot of heartache in the end.
2006-08-31 01:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't know... but I don't think I would be having sex with someone who acts like I owe him money... Is he a gigolo?
2006-08-31 01:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't look you in the eye...and they tend to touch their face a lot while they're talking. At least, that's how I can usually tell when someone's lying to me.
2006-08-31 01:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your first instint. Kick him in the nuts. You'll feel better.
2006-08-31 01:42:17 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋