I'm a freshman and I've never had a boyfriend. I do want to wait and find the right person, but I've been waiting for years! Any advice on what to do to get noticed or what to say, what to wear? Any advice is greatly appreciated.
2006-08-30 18:16:18 · 19 answers · asked by Blair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep in mind that i don't have my mind on any specific guy either.
2006-08-30 18:16:53 · update #1
let me clear something up, freshman in college NOT highschool.
2006-08-30 18:27:58 · update #2
Just always try to look your best, so that for yourself not to attract guys, just go out and have fun, meet new people and don't knock back any invitations to parties and stuff like that, Just be comfortable with who you are and keep smiling cause you never kbnow whos admiring you from afar, Guys like a girl to be fun and confident. It will happen in time, but don't let guys use you, or you'll have a hard time finding a guy who respects you. Cheers!
2006-08-30 18:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't start dating until my freshman year of college- not because I didn't want to it just happened that way. I'm thankful for it though because had I been in relationships I would have never gone away to college, lived on my own in an apartment or been ballsy enough to go for the job I have now- which is where I met my wonderful fiance'. Life has it's own plan don't stress about what you think should be happening, live your life and mr. perfect will find you!!
2006-08-31 01:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kirsy0016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and find the right guy. You have years before you should ever have those worries. Enjoy your teenage years, because it's precious.
But if you want to take the risky chance, just be yourself. That's all that is important! Be confident and wear what you are comfortable in.
Goodluck!
2006-08-31 01:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please please be careful....i've had too many friends who fell vulnerable to guys during their freshman year--whether older or just "Secretly creepy". its especially dangerous as a freshman becasue i know you're thinking, okay this is my chance to be different than who i was in h.s., my chance to start new and be who i want to be...
that's all true, but just be careful at parties and whatnot because ive found that freshman are especially vulnerable and sometimes let the excitement of a new environment take over them...be mindful that the guys you are meeting can portray themselves anyway they want. you don't necessarily know their reputation or their real personality as you did with most of the people you went to high school with. also be careful of older guys who might want to take advantage of you. this goes for people you meet in the dorms too, not just at parties...even if you know them for 1 month...they can still do something you didn't expect
otherwise, be yourself, be smart, be safe, and you'll meet tons of great new people in college.
2006-08-31 01:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by hello_out_there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get out there and start talking to people. oh n dont think the first guy you meet and like is the love of your life, you need to date different people to see the good from the bad and try to find the one that is right for you. good luck, ive dated so many guys ive lost count and i STILL havent found the right one.
2006-08-31 01:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maintain ur dignity n personality. be a bit (only a bit) arrogant n appreciable to those who really deserve that. be a little outspoken n if there r oppurtunities, show up ur talent, like if u really dance or sing well. and, and, and, if a boy comes to u, dont get inflated n extend ur hand. act as if u r not interested. then see DIYA'S MAGIC!! it works darling!! go ahead!!
2006-08-31 01:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hav waited enough then i thnk u shud just giv on for a gud guy. imean who is 4 u only.like soulmates. so just b normal so that u dont hav to struggle hard in ur relationship wid him to maintain those standards that u hav setup in the beginning.
make frenz who knws one day sum1 from them turns out to b soulmate
2006-08-31 01:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me a break. you don't rush things like this. I didn't have a real meaning relationship until I was twenty. So stop putting a timeframe on these things and enjoy your life. These things work themselves out. xoxo
2006-08-31 01:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by GQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem...i think u have to be nice when facing with a good guy..dont judge by looks . u have to exactly know the 1 u r making friends...so it might not be so much easy.
2006-08-31 01:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by link2mrfs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me your still in school.Believe me you wont want to just be stuck with your boyfriend.There is going to be many guys out there and besides you shouldnt have to change yourself for others.Guys will come to you by themselves. Just watch.....
2006-08-31 01:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋