my question is: i'm bi-sexual and my fiancee agreed that it is okay for me to sleep with woman.( my fiancee is a guy) but this girl said i'm a wh**e because i can kiss a girl while he sits in the same house. does the fact i can have a boyfriend and girlfriend make me a wh**e
2006-08-30 18:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by amariahliegh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a straight and strictly monogamous person, so I personally would find it impossible to kiss or sleep someone else. But that's just me.
Every loving relationship is different, and what works for one couple doesn't necessarily work for another. It's just life. If you and your fiancee (and whatever other girl you're involved with) is cool with all of this and everyone is happy, that's what's important. Forget what other people say. Would you seriously change your natural way of being and your loving relationship with your fiancee and your girlfriend just to make this tactless idiot girl think you're no longer a wh**e? (btw: technical definition of whore is someone who gives sex for money... not so in your case)
A word of advice though: a lot of people are still in the dark ages about accepting alternative lifestyles, so careful who you tell, sadly a lot of people just won't understand.
2006-08-30 18:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call yourself names if you want, but what you really are is permiscuous. You obviously haven't found someone that fulfills you so you don't have to find pleasure elsewhere. When you find someone you truly love, you will not need to be with other people whether it be with a woman or a man. Obviously for you, sex is a preference, now all you have to do is find a woman or a man who you prefer to be with. Both you and your boyfriend deserve to be happy and content with one partner. Show him some respect and let him go find someone who chooses to be with just him. If he loved you, he would not want to share you. He might just allow you to have other relationships in fear of losing you. Obviously, he either doesn't have a lot of self-respect, or he is also having other affairs, after all you aren't married. All is fair in dating, up until there's a ring on your finger, or a mutual commitment. Being bi-sexual doesn't mean you have to be with men and women at the same time.
2006-08-31 01:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that if you are planning on getting married to your fiancee then you should probably be committed to just him. I wouldn't say that you are a wh*re, but would it be okay with you if your fiancee wants to kiss other people??
2006-08-31 01:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever floats your boat. As long as everyone is really happy and nobody wants more or is hurt by it, do whatever you like with whoever you like and stuff the rest of the world. Just make sure nobody is getting upset with it all
2006-08-31 01:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his/her own. If your man is ok with it then who cares what other people think.
2006-08-31 01:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO, sounds like she is jealous of him, so am I, that lucky dog!
2006-08-31 01:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing..wh*re!
2006-08-31 01:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by GreenGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. U r mistaken.
2006-08-31 01:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its FANTASTIC
2006-08-31 01:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Glen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋