I was 19 when I had my son I still lived at home with my parents when my son was 6 months old I moved out an left my son with his grandmother till I got moved in. I went back to get him an she refused to let me have him.went to see him every weekend while he was there. up an until she went to court an now has temporay custody of him I get to see him every weekend how will I go about getting him back I mean hes been with her sence birth an really is not use to me that much an crys. would that be a promble? Help Please
2006-08-30 18:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by angie_miller31 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Courts are in favor of parents, especially if your married ANND able to provide support for your son-not just monetary.
Grandmother would only have a case against you if she can prove that it's harmful for the child to be in your custody, i.e. child is exposed to drugs, alcohol, etc....
I don't know how long your son's been at the Grandma's, but she may be saying you abandonded the child and to be honest, a huge part of your case will depend on the judge, will the Grandmother prove to be better able to provide care?
2006-08-30 18:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by hoggendog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why your grandmother has temporary custody of him,and I'm sure you know what it is.If you see him every weekend,he should be used to you.You are going to have to go to court.Get a lawyer-you are going to need it.By the way,if she went to court,it IS a legal documented thing,and it doesn't matter what you did or didn't sign.Why did you leave?You should not have left until you were FULLY capable of taking care of your child.Children need stability-he's probably better off with your mom for now anyway.
2006-08-30 18:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by yvonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire yourself a good child custody attorney!
How did your mother get temporary custody of him?
Did you or your husband sign anything saying it was OK for her to be doing this?
Did you and your husband go to court for the custody hearing?
2006-08-30 18:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the youngsters constantly are available in the previous your love life. you're putting your desires in the previous your toddler's. yet you're so youthful how are you able to in all probability be responsive to this?? Secondly, there's no condition that makes it okay to have moved into yet another guy or woman;s kinfolk so quickly. you mustn't have ever been presented to this boyfriend's toddler so quickly. experts say single mum and dad shouldn't contain the youngsters of their love life until eventually they have been serous for like twelve months. you have not any company being everywhere endear this guy's toddler. while you're extreme approximately being a parent, you will placed your toddler's desires in the previous your guy or woman. you will habit notwithstanding love life you're having away out of your toddler and not show him to any of it. Likewise, you will not violate barriers with somebody you're relationship via moving in or putting out with their little ones until eventually you have been extreme (not purely relationship...extreme) for a twelve months or greater. Co-parenting is tough adequate with out having third events in touch. it is why you defined this guy's difficulty as "infant mama drama". There are 2 aspects to each tale and the wreck up of a kinfolk of very extreme and between those 2, not you. pass be with your toddler. He desires you greater beneficial than you like a boyfriend. And careful to not enable him see too many adult adult males parade although your life. this is going to deliver him the incorrect message. you're able to desire to be a place sort for the subsequent 18 years! what share boyfriends could he be subjected to in that factor?
2016-10-01 02:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done nothing wrong as soon as his grandmother refused to give him to back you should have called the cops... but now call a laywer. If you have a stable home life they will most likely give him back to you. YOU are his mother and if you are a fit parent he belongs with you.
2006-09-01 05:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres how i see it im 18 but i know a bit if you have a good income and good household. clean tidy etc and if your husband is the father if not it donr make a huge deal but you are his mother there is no legal document saying they get the child go to your local police and court and and if you have the above you should be just fine...best of luck to you need to talk here cuddle_bunny_77@hotmail.com or my yahoo addy peter_gurl_77...best of luck again
2006-08-30 18:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with a lawyer because you will have to go to court in order to get custody.
2006-09-02 21:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anything about the law, but I can't see them keeping your son from you. As long as you can prove you are responsible and can care properly for him. Make sure your life is stable and get your son back.
2006-08-31 04:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you all the Luck in the world
2006-09-03 17:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by grams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋