it seems like i have broke up with every guy i ever dated, and even broke two enagements. I dont know why but i just break up with them. And now wondering why i'm single yet again.
2006-08-30 18:09:51 · 18 answers · asked by ash223 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're like someone I know,
Could be
1 You keep falling for the wrong type of guys.
2 You get bored easily. You move on to things quickly, none of them survive trying to keep your attention.
3 You're a perfectionist. You want your man to be able to read your thoughts everytime and you get frustrated when they don't.
4 You have unrealistic expectations for your guys.
5 You're commitment phobic.
6 You always compare your new guy with the previous ones in your mind.
7 You love yourself more than you love your guys. No one seems to always be at your level.
8 Your guy loves himself moreso he does you.
9 Your guy loves to play around more than he loves being with you.
10 You are serious about pursuing relationships, but not serious about being in and maintaining relationships. You love romance and excitement, and dread consistency.
11Are you the type will never be in lack of company but your old friends who used to be close seem to distance themselves from you after sometime?
12 Are you Sagittarus?
I hope you are nothing like that.
If you are, there's nothing i can do for you.
Only you can help yourself.
2006-08-30 18:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been through two engagements already, but don't know why you're breaking up with them? Going on that information, I might conjecture that you are sending the wrong signals and/or attracting the wrong guys.
Not your typical "wrong guys" who most girls complain about - jerks, commitment-phobes, losers... - but guys who don't keep your interest or engage you on enough different levels to swoon you over into commitment.
I don't know how old you are or what your interests are, but perhaps you should make the most of this time when you are single. Get to know yourself as an independent entity, and not in terms of your relationship with someone else. Do things that you enjoy doing alone or with girl and guy friends.
In summary, don't just jump into another relationship, or it may end the same way your past relationships have. Stay single until you understand yourself better, so you'll be ready when someone who truly deserves your love comes by. Only then do you have a good chance of long-term happiness.
2006-08-31 01:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you have not found the right person yet.
When you find the right person they just become part of your life. It feels natural, right. When you have found the right person you stop looking and all the pieces just seem to fall into place. Kind of like finding a pair of shoes that really fit, or a pair of really, really comfortable jeans. You just sort of heave an emotional and mental sigh of relief, '... AHHHHHH that feels soooooo gooodd...." And you get on with the rest of your life in the direction of being a pair instead of a single. (which is not to say there will not be heat, heat is part of that AHHHHHH)
2006-08-31 01:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by raredawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies and TV probably make you think there is a perfect guy somewhere out there for everyone. The funny thing is that there isn't. You probably get annoyed or are not happy with what you get. Did you know there is a high percentage of americans who are single and LONELY. The important thing is that you always need to make sacrafices, but you must make yourself happy. It's ok to break up with people as long as it's for the right reasons and not the absurd.
2006-08-31 01:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by ElectroMagneticLight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People who break up frequently for no logical reason often just like the "Thrill of the hunt." If this is you, you like the butterflies and goosebumps you feel when pursuing someone new. You like the uncertainty, the feeling of excitement in discovering something new about your new love every day. However, when you've been with them for some time, the "hunt" is over. You dump them and get back into the "thrill of the hunt." Gotta settle down sometime girl.
2006-08-31 01:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by microwaved-brain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prob cuz you know you can get another date anytime you want.
If you got into a hidious car crah that left you wicked disfigured I bet you would marry the first person who asks, B/c you know no one else will. You are vain selfish and stuck up, sorry just my guess, I'm assumming your in your 30's, otherwise you should be in no hurry to get married unless you live in the DEEP south.
2006-08-31 01:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick Bateman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems to me you need to take some time and think about what you really want from a man,maybe being in love scares you,maybe you need to just be alone for awhile and in time you`ll meet the one who doesn`t scare you away.sometimes the feeling of entrapment is scary,in my practice i have meet many like you,keep your head high and be single for awhile,in time he will come along
2006-08-31 01:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just not ready, and that's okay. Much better than rushing and ending up divorced like the other 80% of the U.S. Seriously, you're doing just fine.
2006-08-31 01:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Libra? I am, and I have those problems, too. Sometimes I just get bored with a guy, and I can't take it anymore. I'm that way with friends, materialistic things, and people. That's how us Libras work.
2006-08-31 01:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem scared to commit or you are not meeting a guy good enough for you trust your instinks
2006-08-31 01:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋