me and my bf/band mate/friend Matt have been going out for 3 months. but we havent told the rest of the band. even the lead singer who's been my best friend since i was 2 weeks old (almost 25 years). should we tell them? because things arent THAT sirious (we dont wanna rush it and loose our friendship). advice please?
2006-08-30 17:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant we've been going out 2 months. sorry, typo. lol.
2006-08-30 17:54:13 · update #1
well, my best friend (the lead singer), he's not always to open minded about things. and he is the only person in the world where i actually care if they approve of something. i dont know...
2006-08-30 18:04:41 · update #2
MIght as well, trust me, they know "something" is up.
2006-08-30 18:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. You have an obligation to your band and your best friend (the lead singer) to tell them. How would you like it if they were going out with another band member and they didnt tell you. They probably wont mind anyways exspecially since the lead singer is your best friend. Just be honest.
2006-08-31 01:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by blablabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes let them know that way if there is ever a problem with the 2 of you your band memebers will expect it and wont be like what crawled up the b*tts let them know that you are taking things slow and no one will rush either of you good luck
2006-08-31 00:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried what they might think, just wait and see how things progress. But what would it hurt to tell them? They may already know, even. Just do what feels right for both of you.
2006-08-31 01:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by nowimrelaxedicantbesure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋