well heres the thing. Is it stupid to keep seeing a guy secretly like nobody knows because it is not accepted in your culture to see other people. So nobody knows, and my family would disown me if they found out. I know i dont have a future with him but we like each other alot. should i just keep seeing him as long as i can? i dont know what to do
2006-08-30 17:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They key point in all of this to me is the fact that you say that you KNOW that you don't have a future with him. So know ing that, why would you risk your relationship with your family for some person that you know you don't really want to be with??? Now had you said the opposite, I would have a different response. But you don't love him, you don't want to be with him, so what's the pont and yes, you are wasting your time AND his time.
Be his friend, but most importantly find someone you do want to be with if you're going to risk a relationship with your family.
Good luck with that.
2006-08-30 17:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by texanaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situtation with someone and I'm not letting anyone keep me from feeling awesome with someone. Just think if you don't take the chance how would u know what u missed out on. You'll feel more quilty if you don't experience it now. Life is to short to worry about other people getting in the way of your happiness. Plus they have the rest of their lives to get over it. It's your life that you are in charge of so take the chance and be happy for as long as u can. I sure am.
2006-08-31 01:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ridiculous,its human nature...Just make sure you know what your doing...if your cultures are so different and it would never be accepted then,watch that you don`t fall in love,this could be very painful for you both.best of luck
2006-08-31 00:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ALWAYS do whatever makes you happy as long as you are not hurting any other person and sounds like to me you are pure of heart in this instance. Life is very short and you will see that sooner than later in this lifetime.
2006-08-31 00:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a waste of time to see someone you really care about, and are attracted to.
2006-08-31 00:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. Do you want a secret relationship forever, or are you willing to risk everything to be with him and not regret it.
Your heart has the answer, not your head.
2006-08-31 00:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋