I was able to find a family room for her. Since she might run out of cash, is it ok to let her share all the expense with my boyfriend who will also come here to visit me?
2006-08-30 17:32:29 · 13 answers · asked by Maganda 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The reason why I asked about this is that I've been a victim of someone, whom I considered as a friend and we even had been partners in doing a noble mission. But when he came here, it seems to me that he only used me as a front so as to be with his lover. And I saw everything that he did to her.... renovate houses, scholarship, companionship every night at his hotel room and when I warned him, he disliked me because I was judgemental!
2006-09-05 19:07:12 · update #1
The reason why I asked about this is that I've been a victim of someone, whom I considered as a friend and we even had been partners in doing a noble mission. But when he came here, it seems to me that he only used me as a front so as to be with his lover. And I saw everything that he did to her.... renovate houses, scholarship, companionship every night at his hotel room and when I warned him, he disliked me because I was judgemental!
The girl had so much guts to interfere with our noble project because she's selfish. She always demanded from the guy to buy me this and buy me that...... Oh, now, I want to seek your personal opinions and suggestions. Sorry, I think my additional note is too late already. But then, thank you so much for all your answers :) GOD BLESS US ALL!
2006-09-05 19:10:28 · update #2
Sure! As long as you can afford it and it doesn't irritate you, why not help a friend out?
2006-08-30 17:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by CuteWriter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend and her share the room and benefit by only having to pay half each then sure, that is fine. But I wouldnt trust your boyfriend staying in the same room as your best friend. If he hasn't seen you for a while he may not be able to hold back any longer.
2006-09-08 00:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fastest way to lose a friend is to lend them money or let them leach off of you. Sounds like she WILL run out of cash to me. Put a time limit to her stay and make sure she knows this is only temporary. Even close friends will take advantage of a good situation. Don't let it go on indefinitely or this so-called friend will no longer be! And your boyfriend shouldn't have to bear someone else's burden.
2006-09-06 01:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Al7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she invited by you or she will visit b you by her own ?If you invited her certainly you must bear all of her routine expenses during her stay with you such as loging expenses including room and meals and local transportation.You can estimate all of her routine expenses during her stay and discuss it politely with your bf .If you have a good relationship and your bf can afford it maybe he can bear it fully or sharing with you.If your friend come to visit you for her own intention,you are better wait her complain if she run out her cash then you are ready to help her bearing a part of her expenses.Or if you are really her good friend you can offer her your help to finance her visit.
2006-09-05 05:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I'd suggest when you're all together, is a common pool of money.Each contribute a similiar amount for the necessities of every day living.Food,fuel,toiletries etc I'm sure they would wish to do this
2006-09-01 00:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would be fine. If she may run out of cash, she will need all the help you can give her. After all, she is going to visit you because she wants to see you.
2006-09-02 11:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart says is best but if you do have judgement issues remember different people are different . even if you get burned you must feel able to trust and exstend your friendship without doubt this is for your self not them . friends dont use friends if they do then check them off your list
2006-09-07 23:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to help a friend, but you should (i) ask her to pay what she's able and (ii) set some limits on how much you will do.
2006-09-06 16:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by btsmith_y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not help a friend out?
2006-08-31 00:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! it wont hert you to lend a few extra dollers to a friend
2006-09-04 00:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋