why is love so painful?

Answer 1

Love is the most hurtful, humiliating, depressing, loathing, bitter, and joyful emotion to human beings. Love is meant to be wonderful, however, sometimes the partner in a relationship is not as committed as you. The best way to cope with this is try to set limits for yourself and keep yourself to the distance that you feel safe. If you dive in though, get ready to feel either the greatest joy in the world or the biggest disappointment you've ever felt. I wish you luck with this question and hope that someday you can forget about the painful side of the best emotion known to humankind.

Answer 2

Love Is Painful

Answer 3

Yes, i think Love is Painful sometimes!It's depends on the, Individuals If you are talking about, conditional love. by the human point of view, love will be always be painful, because it's involved our feelings and our emotions, the pain of rejection, the pain of Self- doubt, the pain of Fear, and the pain of , hurt. some people chose the wrong person to fall in Love with, some people fall in love with the right person , and things still happens, so it's seams as that Love and pain go together. And that Love is sweet and Bitter at the same time: And this happens, when you don't make the right choice of who you love, Aading all of this up, Indeed all meaningful relationships are painful, it's all about Degrees, love is painful, but can be great!, Men and, Womens are both Susceptible to love. Some Scholar, says that womens are too emotionals ,and that are more susceptible to getting hurt and falling, in and out of love and that men, are always the guilty party ,or the party doing the hurting.And that most men get hurt too but men move on faster, while , female s bear the brunt of the soreness on keep hanging on, ( Old memories, sake) I says that it simple depend on the man in your life. and the feelings, and sympathy .you both share Love, is long suffering ,and yet this does not stop any one from loving one another, Because we can over come pain, by cherishing our hearts and strenghting our mind. , Love is still sweet, divine and great.And you can choice when to sacrifice and when not to, and love will be always painful Because it creates the way for bliss. it transforms, is realistic, and logical' Peace t o all, Love& Grace to All

Answer 4

You might think that love is painful, because you are vulnerable to this person and might take everything so literally. If you significant other causes you pain than you should let her/him know, that you are hurting and if they truly love you, they wouldn't hurt you on purpose. Don't stay in a relationship that causes you pain, you deserve better.

Answer 5

I don't know why it is, but it hurts more than anything I have ever felt.....I just try to remember that if I never feel pain then I will never experience true joy.

Answer 6

love in and unto itself is NOT painful......... pain can be an after effect or a left over emotion of it..... love is beautiful and wonderful and glowing....... do NOT confuse love with other emotions.......... God bless

Answer 7

if its painful then it isnt love. Human are born with darkness and hatred but kindness and love they have to make with their own hands. Everyone's is different and sometimes people misunderstand what love is. Kindness and love adapts to your surrondings so what you think is love may not be love at all to start with.

Answer 8

coz it is something so special to us, and something that everybody longs for. it is painful coz we expose ourselves too much to the person who cant appreciate the real you.

Answer 9

because people don't know what love is

Answer 10

we make the wrong decisions in life about our choices of our soulmates.