How do u tell a guy that u are not interested in him ..without breaking his heart? HELP!!?

Answer 1

Well, There is no easy way to tell him that you are not interested in him. It will hurt no matter what. But you must do what you know and feel is right. No matter what ,

Don't worry, In the long run, He will be Glad you did.
and so will you, Believe me.

Just tell him the way you feel somewhere private so that he doesn't get embarresed with alot of people around. and tell him what you have to but do not come out harshly and mean, Come out with Love and tell him you want to be friends but no more then friends.


Doing it with Love is your best bet! and all things will work out for the best then. It may hurt and hard to do but at the end it will feel awesome, because of your accomplishment. Then anything else that comes in your way... heck, you can deal with it, cause if you did this, You can do anything you put your mind to!!

Good luck!

Answer 2

Unfortunately there is no easy way to tell someone that you aren't interested, however, the longer you put it off the longer it will take him to heal. The best is to be honest and straightforward. If you beat around the bush so to speak, he will try different things to try and change your mind. Then you both are still miserable. Simply tell him that although he is a good man or a gentle man or whatever, he simply isn't your type and that any hope of anything more than a friendship is out of the question. Of course you could always tell him you are planning to be a nun! haha Lots of luck!

Answer 3

Build him up before you drop him. Tell him he's a great guy and you really care for him, but you are in a place in your life when you really don't want to be in a relationship.Make sure you say that you don't want to be in a relationship with anybody right now. He can't get too upset if you are just simply not ready to get involved with anybody. Good luck.

Answer 4

you just say you can't start anything with him because it doesn't feel right or whatever the reason is. you have to tell them up front because otherwise he is gunna keep thinking you ARE interested in him but just taking it slow and then his heart is going to break if you keep leading him on .

Answer 5

I guess there is really no easy way. In my opinion the least painful way to do it is just like removing a bandaid. Get it over as quickly as possible.

Let him know that you value his friendship but you're not looking for a relationship right now.

Answer 6

have a talk with him let him know you like him a lot but you are not interested at the time tell you have a life to get together it's going to be hard to tell him you must do it soon it will get harder to tell him later or you can see someone to show him but that hurts just let him know good luck to you

Answer 7

"I'm sorry. You're great and all, but I'm just not feeling anything between us."

Blame it on your hormones, basically. Then give him space for a couple days. He'll be depressed for about 2 days then get over it, act like nothing ever happened between you, and start hitting on your friends :) Be ready for that... Just don't ever bring it up again, unless you've changed your mind...

Answer 8

Just tell him because otherwise he'll keep liking you. It's the best thing you can do.

Tell him, I like you but I am not attracted to you that way. You probably have a lot to offer someone but it's not me because I'm not attracted to you. If you can be ok with it, we can be friends, but we will never date.

Answer 9

I don't think there is any easy answer, but just be honest with him. It will be best in the long run and he deserves that much. He will see you as a true lady, after he gets past the hurt.
Good Luck.

Answer 10

Tell him he means so much to you as a friend that you can't bear the thought of anything ever happening in a relationship with him to ruin your friendship.