My boyfriend is ready to have children but Im not really ready.
2006-08-30 17:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hon, you guys just plain need to sit down and have a nice long talk. Explain to him that you do not feel ready to have children. Make sure to let him know that it is not about how you feel about him or your relationship, it is just that you do not feel emotionally ready for children. Give him time if he needs to think about what you have said, but stand your ground- if he cant understand and accept your position, then he is not the right guy for you.
2006-08-30 17:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him stright forward that u wont have the kids until u are mattied bcos u know tht things are messy now a days u never know what happens after that it may happen that he leaves u and then what will u do he would supress u emotionally ythat dont u trust him or that kind of things but be strong anjd u can tell him that u are not ready to take just so much of a pain right now bcos u have a career in front of u that can be a good excuse .
2006-08-31 00:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by aks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't have kids until you are married. Then only get married when you are ready.
2006-08-31 00:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest........ a child is a big deal and a life changing thing....... having a child takes 2 ppl..... or should..... if you are not ready, having a baby could be davestating to you....... regret is a hard thing to live with, and has a tendancy to over flow in all areas of life............ God bless
2006-08-31 00:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest no secrets and DONT BE PUSHED into something you don't want. If you want a friend just to talk to u can contact me no strings attached
2006-08-31 00:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by herbs411_42719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME, SILENT IS NOT GOLDEN. YOU NEED TO JUST
BE HONEST WITH HIMA AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU\
ARE NOT READY FOR CHILDREN. I SURE HE WILL UNDERSTAND.
2006-08-31 00:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him and while your at it, tell him he should probably be married and have a stable home life first.
2006-08-31 00:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up
2006-08-31 00:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. if he loves you he will respect yr decision. read more on dating and relationships on this site
2006-08-31 00:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and let him know how you feel about it.
2006-09-02 18:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋