last 2 weeks ive invited this girl out to a pub with me, but both times she wasnt able to come.
today i sent out a message to all my firends that i got a new phone number and she sent me this reply.
"hey got your messsage, hope you have a good weekend. ive got Pe assignment to do, and then next week the arts one. lol"
is she hinting for me not to invite her out anymore?, i mean i didnt ask anything about going out for weekend, and thats hit me hard.
or is it just me reading it really badly
2006-08-30 17:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well possibly it is her hinting you.... BUT its NOT that clear
If I was you i would just leave it alone let a couple of weeks pass by and you can ask her again 1 more time and if she gives any message like this again then unfortunately its a NO.
and if so don't feel bad, she is probably NOT worth it so move on. you can find someone better.
2006-08-30 17:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Yvett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, hard to say, she may not want to go out with you - but usually one can get kind of a gut feeling as to what's really going on. When you asked her out twice, was she just saying "no, I can't come"? Or did she say anything like "Too bad, I can't make it this time, but I would love to go out some other day." The latter is usually a good indication that she is indeed interested, just the timing was bad. But if she simply gives you reasons as to why she can't go, it probably means that she is not interested, but too nice to say anything about it.
If I were you, I would give it a couple of weeks, and then ask her out again. Give her a choice of days, make it flexible. If she declines, then it's probably not meant to be. Good luck!
2006-08-31 00:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im sorry to say it, but to me that sounds like the nice brush off. It could be that she sees you two as no more than friends, or perhaps she is just too busy right now. My advice, give her some space. There are plenty of girls out there hon, just let this one go for awhile.
2006-08-31 00:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take that as "back off". She's making up excuses ahead of time just so you won't even bother to ask. If she was interested she'd either make time or set up a date for when her assignments are over.
2006-08-31 00:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a nice way of saying that she doesn't want to go out with you. You are reading it right, she doesn't want you to invite her. Just move on and let her make a move to contact you.
2006-08-31 00:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats hinting alright
2006-08-31 00:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are in the Just Friends zone.
2006-08-31 00:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think you can ask her out again after the "arts" assignment is over
2006-08-31 00:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, i think she is giving you the gentle brush off...... so just accept it and move on...... maybe try again at a later date...... if she turns you down or has an excuse , just let it go...... forget it...........God bless
2006-08-31 00:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is hinting u not to invite...i mean she doesn't have to tell u her whole sched for that matter.....don't expect somethig and c'mon....tell urself its no big deal
2006-08-31 00:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋