OK, so I really screwed up here and was dishonest to my guy...?

Question

I wrote in to say before that I had discovered that my boyfriend of 4 mos had his profile up on the personals after telling me he didn't. It was a true accident (via a friend), but then curiosity killed the cat. I couldn't help myself and sent him a dummy profile and query. He responded to it asking to speak over the phone! I was so horrified by my dishonesty (pushed into gear by my ex-husband cheating on me) and my discovery. We only just got home from a week's vacation that he termed a 10 out of 10, and telling me he only wants one woman. My sister says that I have a good time with him, and that noone has declared commitment, so I should just enjoy him and not bring anything up because it would highlight my deception. I would hate not to see him, now, but just don't know what to do. . Help! I should tell you that this aside,I have never felt so easy and right with someone before, and that he is the best lover and genreally attentive and considerate person I've ever gone with

Answer 1

I THINK THAT YOU JUST NEED TO SUCK IT UP AND TELL
HIM WHAT HAPPEN. HOPEFULLY HE WILL FORGIVE YOU
BUT HONESTLY IS THE BEST POLICY. AND IT WILL NOT
GET ANY EASIER .KNOW YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY
ABOUT THAT NOSY CAT. DONT YOU.

Answer 2

2 wrongs dont make a right...... but I do understand the why behind your deception..... looking into a matter such as this is not really wrong, but not realy ok either...... are the 2 of you *just* dating ? I think you need to come clean about it all.... seems to me as if you need to.... you seem like you are the type this will bother you for ever....... so just bite the bullet and tell all...... he will either be ok with it or not...... if not then you will know just where you stand with him......... God bless

Answer 3

wow,let me get this straight,your new guy puts a profile up and you accidently put a dummy one up to see how honest he was,turns out he is a cheater...yes a cheater....and you feel bad........wait..wait....whats your phone no#,because theirs alot of asshole out their who love to go out with victums....you want to get seruius with another guy who WILL cheat on you.....is this a real question.....do you belive what your writing....no no ...this cany be a real question......if it is go get some self-esteam......hey if you want to just do this guy,and have him on the side,then nothing wrong with that,but if you want to get serius then you will wind up someday with aids or herpes,because this asshole is playing you like a violin,come on get some common sense,confront him,,,,give him your no#let him know you caught him......stop being a victom,and be a proud women,be true to yourself and stop listening to your sister who seems to want you to fail,or is just too young to understand..............sorrry spell check not working.

Answer 4

Confess while sucking his dick and hope your good enough to make him forget before he cums. If not, keep sucking...