2006-08-30 17:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by SJS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He failed to tell me he was married. When he did, I ended it. He left his wife and I went back, but I ended it again, because I thought 'how do you trust a cheater?' We live in different cities, so you can see how he would be able to hide being married, I can't stop thinking about him. The sad thing is, I am a very good looking girl, and know better. I know, and I am trying to move forward, but I am stuck....HELP!
2006-08-30 17:50:22 · update #1
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2006-08-30 17:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seven weeks is a long time. If he hasn't called or anything do you really want to be with someone who doesnt call to see how you're doing? He probablly will call, but don't depress yourself thinking about why he isn't calling you. Break ups are tough, i know, just hang in there, and try to go out and do things that don't remind you of him. Even though you're thinking about him a lot, thats just the slow process of breaking up, it took me months to stop thinking about my ex bf. Just be happy for the good times you had and move on to the better. Good luck, feel better
2006-08-30 17:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by fuakata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't talked to him in 7 weeks, go on and forget about him
If you can't, pick up the phone and call him. Sometimes it will take a bit longer for the female to take control and go on with her life.
Men on the other hand, just forget it and start again. Well, most of them anyways.
Good luck, a broken heart is not easy to get over unless you have some one there to help you out. Take the hint, let go.
2006-08-30 17:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure, but mine did after a couple of months. I know it's difficult, but just try to keep yourself busy and when you slip, just think how he is sooooo... uncool and tell yourself, you don't want him anyways. I know it sucks, I am extremely sorry for him because he's gotta be a loser for leaving. Smile, It always gets better!
2006-08-30 17:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him. Get busy with something, go out with friends, start dating. There's nothing worse than wallowing in depression and self-pity. You guys broke up for a good reason, his loss, keep your chin up and get a life!
2006-08-30 17:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves u he will call. Just be patient. Sometime men are egoist.
But if you really loves him, work this thing out. No harm in calling him first. If he really dun want the relationship than begone.. AND BE HAPPY.
There are other life out there than just love...
2006-08-30 17:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes you but he wants to stay broken up. He knows that if he keeps seeing you, you guys will keep getting back together. Get over him. Thats what he's tying to do.
2006-08-30 17:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Silvestre G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YO WILL HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN IM SURE, BUT SINCE IT
BEEN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, THEN HE MAY FEEL
KIND OF WEIIRD ABOUT TALKING TO YOU. BUT IF YOU
WEFE ON GOOD TERMS WHEN YOU BROKE UP, THEN
JUST BE PATIENT. BUT YOU CAN ALSO JUST CALL HIM
AND SAY HI.
2006-08-30 17:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to leave things in the past now. if he had anything to say he would have called you by now. read more on relationships that might help on this site
2006-08-30 17:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex and i broke up for a month.he doesnt call and i dont call him either.i think you should give him time.he is going to call you
when he's ready
2006-08-30 17:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by skyrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋