I have a boyfriend right now but I dont know if I love him, my feelings for him before was gone, because i found someone new I know he love me very much but it is not fair for him to give him a chance for nothing.
2006-08-30 17:08:15 · 3 answers · asked by isaiah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go with your gut feelings, but it's not fair of you to keep you bf hanging on if your feelings are gone let him go and find someone new too. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 17:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, Knowing that you are in a relationship and commited to this guy, (Boyfriend) Then it is only right to let him know what your feelings where/and are now.
Look deep into your heart and if you truly love this guy and want to be with him forever and see yourself with him then stay with him. But if you can't really see yourself with him and the feelings you felt before have suddenly changed because someone new has come in the picture.
Then your best bet is to just wait it out and feel this out,
See how this new guy is like, ask your self questions about this special guy in your life now and see if you could see your life with him then?
I once went to a conference and a lady told me to write down everything I want in a guy (future Husband) and she said the one who checks all, 100% is the one that is right for you!!
Keep holding on, Just don't go getting involved with another guy while you still have one that is deeply inlove with you thinking that the feeling is very mutual.
You have to let him know, Don't let him just hang there in mid air, Think of yourself in his shoes and think of what you would want to have happend and how you would of liked to know and how you would handle the situation if you where him. Now think in your terms, and dwell upon this for a while.
Life isn't always on the surface things, It's deep.
We have to dig and till up the ground for anything to grow. So the same in a relationship, Don't lead them on, Cause that would not be good in your part...
Good luck!~
2006-08-31 00:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have your boyfriend right now and you lose your feelings for him.. you should split up with him because he will be hurt as long as you stay up with him..
you need to talk to him right away.. he will be hurt but it is right to do it because when you still hide what you feel he will be more hurt..
and never give someone a chance if it is just for nothing..
2006-08-31 00:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by michaella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋