i went out with my gf tonight and after the movie i asked her to makeout with me. She acted as if it was weird that i asked her and she said "if you want to ". I thought that affended her so i backed off and didnt do anything. In the past, her friends keep saying that i should make out with her and that will make her happy. I know she really likes me alot and all, but why wont she kiss me?
2006-08-30 17:01:58 · 38 answers · asked by big e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my breath was perfectly fine, i brushed before .
2006-08-30 17:08:09 · update #1
big e number one rule this isnt dajavu i just answred this q anyways never ask especilly if she likes u alot just doit dude even if its wrong but wiat till that moment shes looking in your eyes and not saying nuffen that means the time to doit is now on u and if she says ack well atleast u went down like a man and not a wuss asking her can i kiss u is nice but not a good rule unless u like to here no they dont want to come off ty but they rather u did the first kiss then watch out casue your captured
2006-08-30 17:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all that was very forward and she is probably startled that you just came out in the open and just asked her right out. But she was so shocked that she probably didn't know what to do other then say ah Yeah I guess. You probably would want to formaly ask her in a way where you set the atmosphere for it. Take her somewhere romantic and make it obvious to her that you want to make out with her. Don't just come out of no where and say it,. It will spook her. Even though her friends said that she will like it and all doesn't mean you have to do it. I mean if you feel the urge and feel the need to then do it but if you are being pressured in it by all means those are red flags don't go in for the kill that quickly. Meaning you will only startle her and make her want to back away. See it obviously made some uncomfortable feelings for the both of you two, So next time prepare her first, set the mood, and make sure she is fully ok with it. and Good luck, Just don't go to far cause then you will only make things alot more worse.
2006-08-30 17:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best kiss is a spontenenous one that comes from something you are both feeling at the moment. If it leads to additional kissing that's where it leads, but sounds like you wanted to skip step 1 and go right to step 4. And, step 1 to her probably isn't kissing, it might be talking, listening, sharing personal thoughts, caring, and lots of other non-physical acts.
If you want a bit of advice, while skipping steps works for guys it doesn't work that way for women.
2006-08-30 17:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you its not very often when a guy says "will you make out with me??" if my bf asked me if we havent made out b4 i would be a lil taken bac. and even tho she said "if you want to" that means yes. i usually say that wen i wanna say yes but dont wanna be too forward about the situation. so she wasnt affended dont worry. and if her friends say it will make her happy then she probably told them she wants to. so try again and good luck
2006-08-30 17:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there was someone there that she didn't want them to see you two make out. Maybe she thought it was inapproipate to make out in public and she likes it in private. It's possible that she was having a bad day or on her period..who knows. I do that with my boyfriend all the time. Sometimes I'm not in the mood.
2006-08-30 17:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, Romeo.... that was certainly not way to a woman's heart (especially hers, if you guys are young - which it seems to me that you are). Let her take the lead when it comes to physical ness in a relationship. Girls do not usually like fast talkers or fast walkers....they like to feel safe, secure and NOT pushed into anything. Just keep things mum at the moment and let things work out naturally. btw....don't listen to her friends...just be her friend and her boyfriend.
2006-08-30 17:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mite need to know how long yall have ben going out to realy know, but i still have some possible answers to why she wont kiss you.
- maby she is going through her time of month
-maby u offinded her on the date
-maby she just wasent in the mood
-maby she was tierd
-maby u had bad breath or u had b.o.
thats all the advice i can give maby if u would go in to more detail i mite ba able to help
2006-08-30 17:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by lover boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER ask a girl if you can kiss her - just do it. When you ask her if you can kiss her it makes everything awkward and wierd. Next time you're with her just kiss her - don't make sure it's alright first - it's a huge turn off.
2006-08-30 17:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying "Let's make out" sounds cheesy. Why do you even need to say that? Just lean in and see if she goes in for a kiss or pulls away.
2006-08-30 17:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Francesca M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, kissing is fine, but making out is gross, in my opinion. her friends were probably just kidding or teasing you when they told her she would be happy if she made out with you. and asking someone to make out with you is just awkward. kissing should just naturally happen when the moment is right.
2006-08-30 17:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋