He says we argue too much but he yells at me a lot and call me a lot of names. Right now we not together but I really really want him back. He also calls me unappropriate names and I don't think he should do that to me because I give him money and everything. What should I do?
2006-08-30 17:00:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just answered your own question.
2006-08-30 17:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, stop giving him money. WHY?
What you didn't say is how does he feel about his child? Is he there for the child? Does he want the child?
If you answer those questions "no", then time to tell him goodbye. Get child support set up through the courts so you can continue to care for your child.
My gut instinct is he is arguing because he doesn't want to be responsible for his child, but he won't leave you alone because you are the money person. He'll continue to argue with you as long as he gets money. Stop that and see what happens.
2006-08-31 00:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him he's no good and let him know you can do so much better and can get someone who will listen and be there for you.Stop giving him money thats all he wants he call you names and you give him money he treat you like his hoe. You and him not together because he need you when he need something. Stop letting him charm you when he ask you for money tell him no but you can give your child some.
2006-08-31 00:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with him if he calls you names and is always yelling at you. There are a lot of better guys out there. Try to forget about him. And don't give him anymore money and everything... He is probably taking advantage of you.
2006-08-31 00:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by space 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts when you love someone and they do not show
love or positive emotions in return. I believe from past experience that you should move on. Let this person go and start a new. He does not respect you! Love yourself, and respect yourself.
Love your child and give him/her a chance at a great life. Staying with this person is only going to hurt you and your child. And predestin this child for a life with co-dependent , hurtful relationships.
2006-08-31 00:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) dont give money to him!!
2) he's not worth it even if he IS the baby's papa
3)think of the child!
trust me, you sound like MY parents and we are SO MUCH BETTER OFF without my dad's bad behaviour and inappropriateness. TRUST ME!!! im not ignorant, im just speaking from experience through a child's eyes (that noticed that that wasnt love)
2006-08-31 00:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by candybraidz_207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, let him go. I think he was looking for a way out of his responsibilities to begin with and If he calls you names and yells then he isn't a good role model for your child. Don't hand him another cent. And harasses you get a restraining order
2006-08-31 00:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a father means more than being the sperm donor..... if he treats you like that, what makes you think it is safe for him to be around a child ? he needs help in more ways than 1...... do NOT give him money..... he should be giving YOU money for child support....... I give you permission to move on and be happy....... do what is right for you and the child..... a child being around a person like that ?? do you want your child to think that this is ok and the right way to treat ppl they love ?? I pray NOT !!!! God bless
2006-08-31 00:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get rid of this guy until you cna take care of yourself. granted, he is your baby's daddy but that gives him no right to treat you like crap and there is no reason for you to accept the behavior he is giving you.
Sounds like you both need some counceling.
is this how you want your baby to grow up? kids mimic the behavior they grow up around. think about that the next time you ALLOW him to abuse you.
2006-08-31 00:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG, HE WILL ALL WAY BE IN
YOUR LIFE BECAUSE HE THE FATHER, BUT IF Y OU ARE
ARGUING ALL THE TIME AND HE DISRESPECT YOU THAT
NOT GOOD FOR YOU ARE THE CHILD. AND FOR GIVIING HIM
MONEY AND THINGS. THAT MAY BE THE ONLY REASON HE]STILL THERE. MOVE ON SWEETHEART, IT WILL ONLY GET
WORST NOT BETTER. AND YOU HAVE A CHILD TO THINK
ABOUT.
2006-08-31 00:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you've been played and dump him. He is never going to change, and do you really want your baby growing up being abused by him as well?
2006-08-31 00:05:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋