I have been in a sexual relationship with my guy for some time now, and we live together. If he is not ready to marry , do I move out and stop having sex?
2006-08-30 16:42:40 · 16 answers · asked by wannakno 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you really want to give all aspects of your life to God, God says that sex should be saved for marriage. That makes sex all the more special - it's a gift to give the person you know for sure that you're going to spend the rest of your life with, in my opinion. Moving out would also decrease the temptation to have premarital sex with your boyfriend.
2006-08-30 16:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First say a prayer to God for the strength to cope with this in a way that would be pleasing to him. Sit down and kindly explain to your guy why you feel that you must live a moral life as a dedicated Christian. Let him have a listening ear to what his thoughts are concerning your dilema. If it doesn't change anything for him, then, in order to please God you would have no choice but to move out and stop having sex. If the feelings for you are sincere, it not only will bring you closer to God, it may also eventually lead your guy to have a permanant relationship with God and with you.
2006-08-30 16:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not understand if every person has pointed this out yet because i did not examine all the solutions, yet there is an get mutually of the address fetal existence for the duration of Bible situations contained in the regulation that announces if a guy strikes a pregnant lady and kills the baby formerly quickening (for all functional objective - formerly it strikes) then it really is in ordinary words punishable through fantastic (which does not characterize the crime of homicide) while even as a guy strikes a pregnant lady after quickening and kills the baby it counts as homicide. this is fairly a lot a similar argument as power immediately. also - it isn't our position to say something about abortion (choose lest ye be judged). we can not say one way or the different precisely how God or whomever you answer to feels. I received't condemn someone who has an abortion because it isn't my position. Witnessing and judging different anybody is two very diverse issues.
2016-12-06 00:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too sure about the whole living together situation, but defiantly abstaining from sex, until marriage is what God wants. I too have turned my live over to the Lord and decided to wait on God for my husband. Living your life for God isn't always easy, (in fact lots of times it seems harder that before), but it is so very rewarding!! God is good!! Your on the right path so hang in there, and if your boyfriend is meant to be your husband, he will be, if not then it just means God has someone totally better for you.
2006-08-30 16:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Wannano, Yes you do! If you truly want to live as God commands; then no more sex before marriage. Has your guy been saved? If the answer is no then you may want to re-think this relationship. Put God first in your life and you will be blessed. Dona G.
2006-08-30 17:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd say definitely move out and stop having sex, even if he IS ready to marry, until it's 'official'. I'm delighted to hear of your decision, by the way!
2006-08-30 16:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only do you move out and stop having sex, if you are not willing to wait on him to become a Christain you can't marry him. Scripture tells believers plainly to not become unequally yoked with unbelievers.
2006-08-30 16:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Prophecy+History=TRUTH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well, because nothing will convince you to stay together, otherwise. Years down the road, you will likely regret that decision, though. Oh well, live and learn.
2006-08-30 16:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by LaRue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Typical woman...I hope....anyway...you can't rush it...if it's been @ 5 or 6 years...then dump him....if not...what's the rush??/...do you want to join the statistic list of divorcee's???....just an opinion...and you know what they say about those....good luck deciding
2006-08-30 16:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, when you come to know God and Jesus Christ as Savior, you are commanded to repent of your sins. "Go and sin no more" and He's talking about sexual immorality there....
2006-08-30 16:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by auburn_eyes2005 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋