Serious responses only, please.
2006-08-30 16:08:10 · 20 answers · asked by Thrasymachus 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
no,its a choice you can not reverse . there are many options ,such as adoption. there are lots of families who cant have kids and would love to have one . think very seriously before you end a pregnancy..........
2006-08-30 16:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by sindi 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The only person that can answer that is you. I'm not going to give you my opinion on abortions because that's not what you need or want right now. I think it crosses some peoples mind sometimes. Especially depending on the situation. Just remember that once you get it done, it's done. Once you decide to keep the baby... After a certain week in your pregnancy you have the baby. Also remember that there is open adoption and adoption. I was fortunate enough to grow up with someone who was at birth. She is my "Little Aunt" and like a sister. She has recently graduated high school and met her birth mother. Honestly I don't think her world could get any better then what is now. I hope this helps. Feel free to email me if you'd like.
2006-08-30 16:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by qtiequawn 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
with no detail, we can not give you a fair opinion. how old are you? how far along are you? what is your reason? is this the result of a rape? are you and your baby healthy? are you a addict (drugs, alcohol, prescriptions)? are you going to be a single parent? do you have the money to care for this child? these are all important factors when making your decision. you need to make the "right decision" for you, in your circumstances. remember when it's done it's done. it may harm you physically (may ruin your chance for future pregnancies) and mentally (depression). but for some reasons and situations it's a necessary evil. would you consider adoption? if you and the baby are healthy, you could adopt to a family of your choice. please speak to friends,doctors,family members etc. in helping you decide. after all you just may decide to keep your baby. good luck in what ever decision you make. you're not alone!!
2006-08-30 19:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on why you're considering an abortion. If it's not because you have a drug or alcohol problem and not because you have disease, then i would consider adoption. There are many, many couples out there that are unable to have children. You could give them the baby they have been waiting what seems like forever for. In other words, if you are healthy and the baby is healthy i would consider adoption, not an abortion. Good luck. Also, it's likely you'll never forgive yourself for having an abortion.
2006-08-30 16:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, please don't consider adoption. It's a very responsible decision that saves a life and makes people that aren't able to have children very happy parent's. Having an abortion is a very selfish act that kills your unborn child and can hurt you both physically and mentally. You may want to research abortion facts and pictures and also addition options. There are plenty on web sites and phone numbers in the phone book. This will hopefully help you in your decision. Please do a lot of thinking before you act. This is a big decision. Have a great night and I hope you get the answers you are looking for.
2006-08-30 16:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
In order for someone to give you a sincere response you would need to be more detailed about the reasons that you do not want to abort? I mean it could be so many reasons to abort and want to abort; baby was a result of a rape, doctor's determined that the child had a serious birth defects and will affect his/her life; but if it is just because you just want to abort, then NO., that is your mistake and you deciding to kill your baby just because you did not take care of yourself and were irresponsible, then you should deal with the consequences of your mistake...
2006-08-30 16:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no you should never abort your baby because having a baby is a BLESSING! some people can not even have kids and that's the only thing that they want! if you don't want the baby then you should have it and then place it up for adoption. at least give the baby a chance. there's a loving family that will be willing to take your baby. just place the baby up for adoption.
2006-08-30 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Without any details - I would say no.
If it was rape that brought the child to form - I may have a different answer - and not knowing how old the fetus is - it is forming all its organs very early in development. Abortion is not birth control. It is too late for that.
Adoption is a good alternative.
2006-08-30 16:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's your choice, and thank God we have that choice, but my personal opinion is NO there are lots of couples out here that would give the baby a happy home (like my family). So think of the gift that you could give a couple that wanted a baby (like mine). But it's up to you, you do what is right for you!
2006-08-30 22:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by stormy2u2001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont abort, this could cause serious damage, and deep depression. its clear that your still young, so put the baby up for adoption. thers so many families out there that would love to have a baby but cant. so go to an adoption agency and do research on this. they can help you.
2006-08-30 16:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by jamiehamster 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Of course not. Don't kill your baby. Give him or her up for adoption; there are many loving families just waiting to give a child a home.
2006-08-31 04:06:48 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋