Just came out of a purely sexual relationship to experiment and such.We had the threesome and other fun stuff.But man,my home town has a bunch of swingers in it.Didnt realize how many we had here.When does become ok for a spouse to ask his or her significant other if its alright to have sex with others?
2006-08-30 16:07:06 · 10 answers · asked by thickgirlsrule 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
A person who respects his/her spouse and respects their marriage would never suggest this.
It betrays what they're supposed to be about. They marriage becomes cr*p.
2006-08-30 16:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To answer your question, you will know the best time to ask her if they are interested. You know your significant other the best and you will know when she is ready to be receptive to ideas. If she is the kind of woman who only has sex at night with the lights off in one position, the idea will probably sent her running away from you. But, if she's been presented with several of these ideas in a fantasy scenario and she's open to those, then discussions can grow from there.
Just remember, that swinging is something a couple does TOGETHER. It's not one person getting to have sex with others. Both of you have to want to do this or things will not work.
Good luck to you both and if you decide to try it, have fun...we always do.
2006-08-31 16:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in relationships that were rather open, but I didn't care deeply about my significant other at the time. I am married now, and I can't imagine my husband being with another woman...especially if I was there to witness it. Talk about causing emotional stress on the relationship!
If you are comfortable with swinging, by all means, enjoy it!
2006-08-30 23:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Stevy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of the hippie culture, and free love? Wife swapping has been around for a very long time (Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice a 1969 movie about? - you guessed it!). I would say that people may be more open now about their swinging, not that there is more of it.
That said, I would have to agree that marriage should be between only two people. You shouldn't get married if you want to have a swinging lifestyle.
2006-08-30 23:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think this is all a terrible idea. There is no concept of monogomy or committment anymore in marriage. You can ask your spouse, but don't be surprised if the answer is divorce papers.
2006-08-31 00:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just don't think it's okay in a loving relationship. Too many things can go wrong. If it's in a casual relationship and all parties are cool, then go for it.
2006-08-30 23:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's usually the first step towards divorce. I've never seen this happen in a healthy, thriving marriage.
2006-08-30 23:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Probably because they are addicted to sex.
2006-08-30 23:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could really suck if you get pregnant
it might be a cute little bastard, but who knows who's the daddy
2006-08-31 05:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by watcher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is perverted.
don't ever do that again!!!
GROSS!
2006-08-30 23:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by ixoyechirho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋