HE WANT'S ME TO GO THE NEXT STEP WITH HIM I FEEL LIKE IF I DO HE WILL DO THE SAME TO ME WITH ANOTHER WOMEN OR THE MARRIED WOMEN COULD BE ME AND HE WILL BE CHEATING ON ME AS WELL SO I THINK I SHOULD LEAVE THE BASTARD ALONE YOU THINK
2006-08-30 15:53:43 · 33 answers · asked by pudden l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you are a smart woman. I can't tell you how many times I have seen that scenario played out. It is like most women just don't get it. They fool themselves into believing that they possess some special quality that the man's wife doesn't have and think things will be different. A dog will always be a dog and a cheat will always be a cheat. What is a nice girl like you doing talking to a married man in the first place. Get your own man. The only thing you need to is to pray, be patient and wait on God. God has blessed me with a wonderful wife whom I respect, cherish and love with all my heart. She didn't pop up in my life overnight. I had to be patient. While waiting however, I have to admit that I did pray. God is good. If he can do it for me I know he will do it for you. You are doing the right thing by kicking this guy to the curb. A relationship with him is a disaster waiting to happen. I will be praying for you. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-30 21:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok this is SO my topic lol. I fell in love with a married man, and he left his wife for me. Its seriously not a good idea...I mean I am all for being the mistress, but GIRL dont get caught up. Cause you are right...he will do the same right back to you. Men that cheat on thier wives...they don't stop when they find another woman to move on to. If you love this guy and things arent working out with his wife, leave him alone til him and his woman arent together. Just my advice...unless you wanna just get freaky then I say go for it. Otherwise, let it go and wait it out.
2006-08-30 15:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by jonijuggsoncam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE is by choice.
Good choice if you leave the bastard!
All the benefits comes along:
no bad karmas
no guilts
peace of mind
good life
God is good, He'll provide you the best guy!
2006-08-30 16:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by cHaStiTy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave him alone. You are 100% right. If he left his wife, and then pursued you, that would be one thing. But if he Cheats on his wife, he could do the same thing to you one day. Tell him to get out of your life, and you find someone who is not attached.
2006-08-30 15:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY BEEN THERE DONE THAT......ONCE A PLAYER ALWAYS A PLAYER AND YES HE WILL DO IT TO YOU ALSO....MEN THAT ARE LIKE THAT ARE USUALLY ONLY AFTER ONE THING AND ONCE THEY GET IT THEN THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS AND THAT IS THE SEX..SOMETHING THAT IS LACKING FROM HOME..HE WILL TELL YOU ALSO THAT HE IS GOING TO LEAVE HER BUT IT NEVER HAPPENS...LEAVE IT WHILE YOU CAN..THERE ARE PLENTY OF MEN OUT THERE.....GO TO plentyoffish.com AND FIND YA ONE THAT IS SINGLE....GOOD LUCK DEAR...BEEN THERE....NOTHING BUT A HEADACHE....HE IS NOT BEING FAITHFUL TO HIS WIFE NOR WILL HE BE TO YOU. I AM IN THAT NOW AND HAVE BEEN THE STUPID ONE WAITING FOR THIS GUY FOR YEARS AND I HAVE FINALLY GIVEN IT UP..IT IS NOT GOING TO EVER BE HIM AND I...LIKE I SAID HE IS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT IS LACKING AT HOME AND THAT IS USUALLY THE SEX IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER..AND YES HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE THE ONE THAT FINDS OUT HE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER WOMAN AND DON'T BE TOO SURE HE IS NOT SEEING SOMEONE ELSE BESIDES YOU AND HIS WIFE....COME ON NOW...GET IT TOGETHER AND LEAVE HIM...THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA.....GOOD LUCK..
2006-08-30 15:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by agoodprsn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question :)
Yes, a married man on the prowl is bad news.
Run as fast as you can, away from any sort of relationship with the punk.
I hope his wife finds out, and takes him to the cleaners in the divorce
2006-08-30 15:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU already seem to have the answer to this question.. go the next step and you are so correct you won't be around long .. he is already cheating .. it will happen again.. someone already married doesn't belong to you.. he already has responsiblities .. get out and run!!!!!!! don't look back.. .!!!
2006-08-30 15:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Since he's married and cheating on his wife says it all. Do you really think you are the only one he's trying to get with! Dump his ***, and find someone better, someone who's single and treats you right. They always talk about leaving thir wife, truth is it aint never gonna happen, they just want to get laid! So tell him to go .............. the next level himself!
2006-08-30 16:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Why would you want to get involved with a man like him?
2006-08-30 15:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, did that long ago and I look back and think how very stupid I was.
Just get out of the relationship as fast as you can, regardless of whether or not it hurts you. You can then be proud of yourself for doing the right thing.
2006-08-30 15:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋