Here is something to consider.......I was in a similar situation and after my last heart break I decided to do some soul searching.......why did this happen to me? why is it that guys treat me this way? and what I had discovered was i didn't love myself and was expecting someone to come in and do it for me. I am not saying that's what your problem is but maybe you should do some soul searching. Speak with someone close to your like a close girlfriend, sister etc and ask them if there are any attitudes that you have that could be a turn off. Maybe you are giving up too much too soon. those are some of the avenues you may want to explore.
What I have discovered is.......our relationships are a reflection of ourselves........quit dating for a little while and you will discover so much about yourself that when you are ready to get back in the game........you'll be so much stronger, nobody can treat you like "crap" because you'll know who you are.
2006-08-30 16:06:54
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answered by Lady Mandeville 6
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First off where are you looking? If you are looking in a place where only those types hang out, then the chances are that's what you'll end up with.
Secondly, have you decided what it is you really want in a guy? Ignore the physical traits for a minute and concentrate on the emotional ones. Concentrate on how you want to be treated. You need to decide that and not settle for anything less, even for a minute simply because someone has a pretty face.
Third, take sex completely out of the equation. If you feel that that's all guys want from you, and you don't feel like you can get past that, then completely remove that option. Let them know straight up it isn't an option and those that stick around for longer than it takes for you to make that known, might be a better place to start looking.
2006-08-30 22:56:32
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answered by vonwasden 3
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There out there. I have asked if there is any decent women. Both sexes have asked this question. The best you can do is don't rush into any relationship until you are fully satisfied with who you have. Also don't be afraid to ask the personal questions on a first date. Define what you want in a guy and figure out what it is going to take to get him.
2006-08-30 22:55:22
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answered by davester1970 7
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Welcome to the dating world.
The worst thing you can do is think there is something wrong with you. Remember, guys are stimulated by visuals. If they see a beautiful women, the first thing they are going to do is imagine you naked. Not much you can do about that one.
You CAN get a decent guy, just respect yourself and don't compromise your values and someone will come along before you know it.
2006-08-30 23:16:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Nothing is wrong with you, HOWEVER ,From my experience decent guys get done wrong by women and nice women get dogged out by men .Being single is rough now a days
2006-08-30 23:05:41
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answered by pistol pete 5
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girl we al have that prob if you dont believe me look at holly berry(BEAUTIFUL)who would want to treat that as piece of met i for got who she was with but he did (dumn ***) just try to say, thier is nothing wrong with you at all men are cazy.when you come across the next guy dont do for him if he leave fuckum. their is a guy that will do for you keep that in mind
2006-08-31 00:40:29
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answered by ineedya_00 4
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Stop going out with the jerks. There are nice guys out there. I'd recommend you find a nerd. You will be suprised.
2006-08-30 22:54:18
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answered by Anonymous
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it's gonna happen all the time.......... Don't give in!! Just do your own thing, you'll find someone
2006-08-30 22:57:45
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answered by Amy S 2
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