I'm extreme.
I never had a girl that was a friend of mine. Ever.
I once shook a girl's hand while saying good bye. I had a crush on her and had no idea what I was doing.
Only at the end of my 11th grade did I make a pretty girl laugh her pants off with something I said. She even cried. She has a bf who is also the cool, funny type of guy like me.
One of my teachers once told my mom that all the girls in my class found me the cutest guy of them all. I don't understand.
I'm a quiet guy. If I went to a party, I would be the cute guy in the corner holdinng a plastic cup.
I get nervous around pretty girls, so I never end up being myself with them.
Ugly girls don't make me nervous. Nothing special is going to happen and I don't want to be mean to them so they end up liking me.
I've been alone 17 years so I have developed my niceness and brains to an extreme. Learning from people's msitakes and such.
My granny says I'm the guy every girl looks for.
Personality, brains and looks. lol
2006-08-30 15:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not gay lol. I can't even picture in my mind having a relationship with a guy..no matter how good looking he is. I just can't.
Now a girl? lol Of course I can.
I want to know a pretty girl and be friend with her for a LONG time before we do anything "sexual".
Just hanging around and lauhging all the time. that's how I imagine a relationship.
I'm not one of those that knows a girl for 2 months and then has sex with her because I'm horny.
I'm one of those that lets things flow. No hurries at all.
It's just...it's hard for me to see every guy around me gaining experience at kissing and sex and all of that. And all I do is reading about it. I know what I should do in almost every situation.
I just want to let it flow.
I want to give my first kiss when the situation just looks like one of those from the movies. You know the girl for a long time and then you see yourselves in a situation that has to lead to a kiss.
Then it flows from there. No need for "Wanna go out with me?"
2006-08-30 15:57:35 · update #1
My birthday is on the 4th August (Leo). For the people curious about it. lol
Another thing. I prefer playing game with girls. Men are just insultive.
If I were to go to a mall with a group of friends...I would prefer all of them being girls. Not because I'm gay. Just because I prefer her company. Gusy are just...guys urgh lol.
I'm like a gay guy who's straight. lol
Imagine having a guy who can give his opinion about how you look. help you put the make up do your hair and give you advice about guys all of that.....but is not gay at all. lol Imagine you can date the nice gay guy lol.
I grew up surrounded by women. Which made me a bit emotionally sensitive. But I was always atracted to girls.
I can put myself in anyone shoes and put myself in their situation. I have a very active imagination.
I can almost feel real love...but alone. Because I imagine being a perfect relationship with my perfect girl.
2006-08-30 16:22:01 · update #2
There's only one answer buddy.....
You're gay....
2006-08-30 15:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
You are only 17. Try picking a medium girl and developing a friendship. You'll be surprised how much personal growth you'll experience. You just have a case of the nerves. You can get over it by doing what is done to treat phobias. Short, repetative exposures to the stressor. Believe me it will work. Go for it. Start by just talking with a girl on the phone, then move up to meeting for a coffee, going for a walk, etc. Good luck.
2006-08-30 15:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by gmpranis1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen your putting to much hype into it an to much pressure on yourself what you need to do is relax. Say your talking to girl just breath and relax. And this thing that the girls think your cute find 1 you like and just start talking to her not as a girl but as a person but dont be over keen. And dont try anything to start with or she might think you are something else like a sleaze. So in final breathe, relax and be cool. Oh and kid we have all been there and those who say they aint are lyin or are extremly lucky anyway its character building as well
2006-09-03 13:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a total catch. My guy is the same way. He never knew it until he was way older, but every girl in school wanted him and he was just oblivious. What he did ( now I'm not recommending it for you, its just a story) is he dated older girls because they had the confidence to ask him out and initiate everything. But he didn't start dating until he was 20. Don't worry. Just keep your standards high.
2006-08-30 15:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by alohajen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some girls tend to go for the ones that make them hurt emotionally like the really super good looking ones who end up having more than one girl. or the bad kind of boys who turn abusive. maybe you are the nice guy that we are looking for. now don't be nervous from this point on. i am putting my foot down *POUND* ow that hurt lol. so from now on get out there and be yourself relax take deep breaths. you can look down occasionally that makes me calm down. so now go out there and make some lucky girl very happy!!!! :o)
2006-08-30 15:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry because the right time will come and you will know when and what to do. and if u r nervous about your friends getting "farther" than you in their relationships dont worry cause your time will come soon. dont be asamed because this may not help but i was 15 the first time i ever held hands wit a boy and im 17
2006-08-30 15:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind bro...
but you're intend to it...you gotta make it slowly...
true love is hard to find..because when people approaches us and says ' I love you', we cannot simply believe it..
in your situation, you're some kind of a guy whom girls are looking forward to.. but if they tell you that they love you, first thing you should know what really made them fallen in love with you..is it your good looking? or your cute body??? or your handsome pocket???
as it because we should happy to have someone who loves us very much..not to have someone we love very much..
after all, you should be careful of girls around you but it doesnot mean you shouldn't try to find true love..but just be careful and don't be tired of waiting
..coz I believe you'd find your true love someday..
remember that love isn't just kissing, snogging or hugging...it's a story of two hearts that were boren to be together and can't live without one..
good luck
2006-08-30 15:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is STOP TUGGING IT! Go out with a "loaded gun" and see what happens. It's amazing how your motivation will change. Or, you could just rent "Weird Science" and do what those two eggheads did.
2006-08-30 15:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by CaptainCrunch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your quiet right? well alot of girls (myself and my friends included) like guys to usually be more out going. if you can't hold up a good conversation then work on it. and you're what alot of girls are looking for. get out there! :P
2006-08-30 16:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by justasking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one question, does your birthday fall between February 19th - March 20th? If it does, that is where you'll find a few answers to understanding yourself a little better. Email me if you want to know more. julie_wall13@yahoo.com
2006-08-30 16:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, just try to be more out going, talk a bit more, but everyone will gain confidance, you will find that special girl some day man.
2006-08-30 15:48:43 · answer #11 · answered by Jack L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋