how can you play hard-to-get with a guy?? anyone please answer this?

Answer 1

DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET OR ANY OTHER GAMES. IT IS DISRESPECTFUL TO DO AND IT COULD BACKFIRE.

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, IS LET YOUR INTEREST BE KNOWN, NOT BY TELLING SOMEONE, BUT RATHER BY YOUR ATTENTION.

COMPLIMENT HIM, ADMIRE HIM, ACCPET HIM, RESPECT HIM, APPRECIATE HIM, AND VALIDATE HIM. IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD TO BE AROUND YOU, AND HE WILL BE CONFIDENT OF YOUR POSITIVE REGARD FOR HIM.

DON'T GUSH OR DUMP YOUR FEELINGS ON HIM. FEELINGS-TALK MAKES GUYS NERVOUS. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY OWE YOU A RETURN ON THOSE FEELINGS.

GUYS ARE TAUGHT FROM AN EARLY AGE TO HIDE FEELINGS, AND THAT THEY ARE A WEAKNESS. IF YOU DO TALK FEELINGS, MAKE IT SIMPE. "I LIKE YOUR ATTENTION. YOU MAKE ME FEEL GOOD WHAEN YOU ARE AOUND. I FEEL IMPORTANT WHEN YOU LIKE WHAT I SAY." ETC.

PLAYING HARD TO GET IS A DECEPTIVE GAME WHERE YOU PRETEND TO NOT BE INTERESTED. SHOW YOUR INTEREST, BUT OPEN UP YOURSELF AT HIS PACE. USUALLY THAT MEANS GIVE HIM SPACE TO COME AROUND.

DON'T CROWD HIM WITH EXPECTATIONS, POSSESSIVENESS, OR JEALOUSY. LET HIM COME FIND YOU AT LEAST HALF THE TIME, AND WHEN HE DOES, LET YOUR INTEREST SHOW THROUGH YOUR BEHAVIOR. DON'T "CLAIM" HIM AND CALL HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND, UNTIL HE CALLS HIMSELF THAT. REFER TO HIM AS SOMEONE SPECIAL, OR SOMEONE WITH POTENTIAL.

DON'T BE FAKE, MISREPRESENT YOURSELF, OR PUT OUT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. USE YOUR ATTENTION AND POSITIVE REGARD TO GET HIS ATTENTION. USE YOUR OTHER REDEEMING QUALITIES. YOUR KINDNESS, YOUR GENEROSITY OF SPIRIT, YOUR EMPATHY, YOUR INTELLIGENCE, YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR, ETC.

EVEN IF HE TURNS OUT TO BE DIFFERENT THAN YOU EXPECTED, YOU MIGHT GAINA GOOD FRIEND OUT OF THE DEAL.