my sister in law would not pay for her mothers funeral bill .Aftershe recieved 175,000 dollers in insurance money.My mother in law paid for her insurance so her children would not be burdend with her final expences my sister in law lied to the whole family and the lawer that handled my mother in law estate in my eyes she did not follow her mothers wishes she also took every thing my mother in law had in her home.
2006-08-30 15:42:35 · 21 answers · asked by Paula S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So she's a selfish self centered individual. Live is too short to make enemies. Besides your husband and his siblings need to approach this sister and let her know that they don't appreciate her taking advantage of their mom after her death. Good luck to you.
2006-08-30 15:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, who is the benficiary of the insurance policy? If your sister in law then it is her money. If her mother wanted the money to go toward her funeral expenses she should put it down in writing and made her estate the beneficiary.
I would say that your hubby is the one to make the decision is his sister did the wrong thing. Otherwise you are putting yourself in a position you may not want to be.
2006-08-30 15:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer depends on how important your sister-in-law is to you. Is she someone you see on a regular basis, someone you've spent a lot of time with and shared a lot with? Is she someone whose friendship you'll miss terribly if you decide not to forgive her? Also, what good will NOT forgiving her do for you? If it's something that's going to be a source of stress and anxiety for you, or something that's going to bother you a lot - if any of this stuff is true, I think you should consider forgiving her. It's true that she's done something awful, but it's not worth making your own life stressful or miserable just to make a point.
2006-08-30 15:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will pay one day
Sad though how family will screw over each other even their own mother
She is just your sister-in-law
You dont have to be overly friendly but for your spouses sake a smile very small chit-chat if that is fine at gatherings that is unless your spouse feels the same as you
2006-08-30 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around,comes around! Get a hold of the lawyer that handled this case and tell him. Your spouse can go after sister. Unless, the insurance was in her name.
2006-08-30 15:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a pure biblical perspective you should forgive her and forgive yourself for any ill will you may hold against her. Now, on the other hand what she did was downright heartless and she will definitely have no good days in her future. This isn't your battle, she will reap what she sow, honey.
2006-08-30 15:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to forgive her for what she did because she was very wrong.
But, I think your mother in law would rather have you forgive (not forget though) and be happy instead of stressing yourself about the lies she told.
2006-08-30 15:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 03:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forgive her, because the only one who will be harmed by your resentment will be you. However there is no way of knowing how long it will take it just depends on you. Kill the WITCH with kindness, It's hard, but it works everytime
2006-08-30 15:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by imperial1931 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is better to have a happy family than a broken one.you better ask your husband what to do about your sister in law.
2006-08-30 16:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋