Sarah Fox: What would you do if your spouse were going to another state to visit an old friend that he sees a?

Question

Sarah Fox: What would you do if your spouse were going to another state to visit an old friend that he sees a couple of times a year. The guy is a bigamist with 2 wives and is bringing in a third which your guy thinks is hot. He drops clues at every turn but tells you nothing is going on (never mentions the third woman) and refuses as he has most of the time in the past to have you accompany him on the trip. When I say I don't get it, he says, you don't have to get it. He knows I am very open to new adventures and willing to try new things...tho we have not. How can I stop the woman from going there from across the country or make him take me.

PLEASE NOTE< EVERYONE>>>THIS IS NOT MY Q. It is a question from someone I know that has this particular problem. I just CUT & PASTED her question. She couldn't find Yahoo Answers, so I put this in FOR her.

She just IMed me. She forgot to include, all the wife swapping that's been going on. She has told her bf, that she would love to join in on such a thing but he still says.."I don't know what you're talking about", or just walks away. He's been doing this for years and JUST ASKED HER TO MARRY HIM! What a jerk! She has proof and emailed it to me.

Answer 1

well ill take the 2 points anyhow and not report it but i think that she should get out i mean how could u be with someone who has more than u for a wife

Answer 2

Dump him all he cares about is his own selfworth, he has no regard for any of these woman, except that they have low self-steem and he knows that they will fall for his lies..

Answer 3

I wouldn't allow him to go. If he's your spouse he should respect your simple wishes. If he wants to go, he takes you. If he goes without you, it's over.. Simple.