hey well i have a problem well hire it goes....i went out with this guy named joel and he told me that it was better as friends so we broke up....and has past 1 month.....now i like a guy a named Adrian he's really nice but i dont know if he likes me like i like him cause i think he likes me as a friend ....so now a gril told me that my ex joel wants to go out with me again and i dont know if go out with him or see what happens with the guy i like Adrian ????? help me plz...... what should i do ???
2006-08-30 15:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, Joel must not want to go out with you too bad if he hasn't told you in person himself. Secondly, if you like this guy Adrian give him a chance and see where things go from there. If Joel want you now it is probably because some chick probably dumped him and he is looking to get back his confidence and self esteem. I mean think about it. How much have you changed in the last 30 days? What is so different about you now that would make him want you now? I'll tell you. Adrian. The best as advice I can give you is to forget that zero (Joel) and stick with your hero (Adrian). Adrian wants and accepts you who you are. Joel only wants you because either he just got dumped or he doesn't want to see you happy with someone else because he isn't with anyone. If you do leave Adrian and go back to Joel let me tell you what is going to happen. While dating you he will be on the look out for other girls. As soon as he finds someone who he thinks is better than you, he is going to dump you. I am a guy and I was young once. I have been there and done that. Stick with Adrian. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-30 15:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on go out with someone different. Go up to this new guy and ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you out. Just ask him if he would like to go see a movie or something. It really doesn't need to be a date unless he asks. Forget the ex he just wants to go back out with you cause you like someone else. He would end up dumping you again after awhile. Just be friends with Joel and that is it. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-30 22:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by socuteandsexy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try out new guy and see if it work out. And if it dont go back with joel
2006-08-30 22:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by lovelycoqueta202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should move on and date the new guy. Joel had his chance.
2006-08-30 22:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by kitty.hicks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow with both guys, you are not tied down to either one. Date both, get to know them. Be friends first. Maybe a little competition will keep them both on their toes. seems like guys want you most when someone else wants you too, must be the challenge..........
2006-08-30 22:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by dk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new guy then if doent work out go out wit joel again
2006-08-30 22:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget joel. he's the one that wanted to break up with you.
2006-08-30 22:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Juggler in the circus
2006-08-30 22:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times like these are when you should be selfish and think about what you want to do or happen
2006-08-30 22:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by chowychowder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋