and he doesn't mean it? Is this a form of abuse or what?
2006-08-30 15:26:50 · 20 answers · asked by Eva Daniel Rn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called a player sweetie!
2006-08-30 15:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say he is pretty much the typical man dealing with the typical woman who wants to hear the typical words to justify her typical sluttiness and he is just trying to justify being a typical asshole .
Personally I don't use those words lightly.If I want laid then I just let it be know. Today's women are comfortable with that and appreciate the no games thing.When you become an adult you will understand. I guess some women feel they can some how feel respect for themselves if they had had sex with someone who said they love them. You can cry later.
2006-08-30 15:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run...don't walk. Yes, it sounds like he is using you it is a form of emotional abuse. Been there and I know it's difficult to get away, but if you don't you will lose your self esteem and self respect. Allowing this to continue will bring you into a depression and you will begin to think that you don't deserve to be loved and respected. Take care of yourself.
2006-08-30 15:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he gets the benefits and a person knows he is lying then shame on the both of you... anytime a person allows themself to be used it is abuse.. but we can only be treated the way we allow.. .that is the key part of any relationship.. if ya don't want it done say NO ... move on.. .especially if you know they are lying ...
2006-08-30 15:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a form of abuse, I give the guys kudos for trying...it's not their fault some girls are stupid enough to fall for the line.
2006-08-30 15:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse? no.
He knows what he wants and could care less about you and your feelings. Would rather be in you then with you.
What do i think?
I think its fantastic, the stupid girls let it happen and eventually catch on and get mad (Makes me look better) and the smart girls know not to (makes me look better).
All in all i look like a better guy all together!!
WOO! GO ME!!
2006-08-30 15:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, to make an omelette you gotta break a few eggs.
I'm only kidding.
I think anyone who throws around the word "LOVE" and takes it lightly....especially just to get their own way... is immature, self centered, and cold hearted.
2006-08-30 15:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say I love you too back to him and score off of him
2006-08-30 15:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by jp_457 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, thats called being a dude
2006-08-30 15:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are very WEAK and have a one track mind, ditch them, they obviously know nothing about love OR RESPECT!
2006-08-30 15:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Uninvited_Ideas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋