I don't mean suicide. I'm too much of a coward for it(as in most things in life) but i wouldn't do that to the people near me. Fact of the matter is this: everyday is exactly the same...no bullsh*t. I wake up and go through the same motions day in and day out. I've stopped hoping for anything anymore. I've been depressed too many time by getting them up(my hopes). I rarely am happy and if you see me smiling for any reason, its usually a fake one. Yes, this is angsty, im well aware of that. I have no friends, im boring, fat, ugly and don't usually have anything interesting to say. So would it be wrong for me to just quit...count the hours(or years if im unlucky enough) down and such? Again, not suicide but its crossed my mind a few(thousand)times. I know thats not mentally healthy, please don't answer with that, yes i should talk to someone and yes, there are hotlines out there. i should call one, i know.
2006-08-30 15:19:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
it's called a rut.I know ..I have a job that has gone bad to worse,my manager is micro-managing us,and I can't do my own job.We need a vacation,I will go to the Bahama's or at least a place where they serve coconut somethings,and you will probably go to the mountains and just chill.Do it and I will..how bout it? You don't sound boring,I see intelligence in your words and ..fat,I have gained like 30 lbs and I have decided to try and excercise for once,but I know it's hard.Don't quit or I will be sadder than I am..Friends,nobody claims to have a friend these days..so just gab with the first person you see and you will probably make their day and yours,too! Life is unfair,but hardly all your fault.Take a day and relax.I see your avatar is smiling,,gotcha!!
2006-08-30 15:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like what you have change it. I got on anti-depressants and they work big time. You might have to try a few to find your match but was it ever worth it ! Depression is an illness, when you are ill you go to the doctor right ? So go !
Then change your day. Make something different happen. Volunteer, you will meet all kinds of nice people. Try a community or college course, more new people and something interesting to know. Try a new hobby, more new people and interesting things. These will also give you something to interesting to talk to other people about.
Don't like the way you look ? Change it. Even if you are not a model. good clothes, hairdo, and grooming can not only make you look good but feel better.
You can make it better, I did. See that doctor, try something new, there are lots of wonderful people and things out there waiting for you.
2006-08-30 15:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by DaLady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you ought to give up to your guy or woman protection... 17 is in simple terms too previous for a 13 twelve months previous.... if he's even 17.. he may be 40 5. the two way it is noted as RAPE if he tries to have intercourse with you. Adults who decide for intercourse with somebody who's below age is a pedophile and can be very mentally ill to think approximately seducing a baby. stay far far far off from this guy or woman except you elect for to finally finally end up in an extremely undesirable difficulty which you won't be able to get out of. you do no longer decide for to waste time with somebody from the phillipines besides!!
2016-10-01 02:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't guit on life. Just try different things if you're tired of the same old thing everyday. Make friends, go out and have fun. thats the only way to fight depression. And yes talk to someone its better to talk about it then to keep your feelings all bottled up inside.
2006-08-30 15:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please let me know if you find an answer to this question. It seems that I'm in a similar situation and I feel as though I'm pushing everyone away from me because no one wants to talk about anything that I wish to talk about. I've found that most of my friends are superficial and hard to talk to now. The few friends I do have to take to are too busy or just don't want to deal with me anymore. Find someone who you can talk to...I know we all know there are hot lines and blah blah but if you aren't comfortable with it then find someone you trust and talk to them....I hope they listen:)
2006-08-30 15:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HHHHHMMMMMM, thats tough, you don't fit in and haven't found the thing that makes you shine. Everone has something that lights their fire, you just haven't found yours yet. Don't quit, just be purely mean about it and say F**k the world, I'm gonna get mine and be happy about........
I can't tell you what you will finally turn you crank but you need to start looking around for something. I have seen what happens when people just quit and it is so not pretty. Good luck
2006-08-30 15:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so freaking funny.
Ok .... no, really, you need to get off your butt and go do something. You're being so down that it's actually funny, like you're joking.
Go work out if you're not in shape. If you have no friends, join a club or meet your neighbors. If you are truely UGLY, please, wear makeup or just go and get a haircut. Try trimming your eye brows.
Also, try giving yourself some love. You can't be THAT bad. Nobody is THAT bad.
2006-08-30 15:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Quitting is not the answer.
You need to find something that will spark your interest.
A hobby or something that can consume your life.
It's a start and gives you meaning.
Find a chat buddy, it's a start.
2006-08-30 15:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kelli 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try something new! Get a Tattoo, buy a new outfit, get sooooo drunk, get a new pet. If none of that helps you should see a doctor about depression.
2006-08-30 15:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by A Fire Inside 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
never give up and yes reach out and talk to someone now
2006-08-30 15:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋