i am having a rough time convincing myself that she likes me...When ever we talk or message each other, she is all about me, but i that is hit and miss. We just started dating and nothing is offical yet, but I am really smitten by this chick. I want to let her know, but it is so inconsistent. One minute she can't stop 823'n me...then I don't hear from her for 2 days. I say f'it I moving on...then here's another phone call. This is crazy....I am way to old for this sh... Should I let her know that I want something more, or cut her loose.
2006-08-30 15:11:42 · 19 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so cool...i know something you guys don't...
"823" is a text message code: it stands for "thinking of you" it is the number of letters in each word. I didn't know until i had to ask my 14 yr old neice either... another example is, "143" which is "I love you" the list goes on and on!!
2006-08-30 15:30:37 · update #1
Hey O, she might like you but she may not be feeling you as much as you are feeling her. Most women would not let 2 days pass without having contact with a guy that we REALLY like. We want to hear his voice or at least know that he is thinking of us.
OR
She could be trying to play it cool and not crowd you. She could be trying to see if you are going to contact her.
It would be less trouble for you to just tell her straight up with no chaser that you are feeling her in a major way but you can't make head or tails of how she really feels about you. Then it's out in the open and she won't have to wonder how you feel. See if that stops this sporadic contact. If it does, then it's all good. If not, she's playing games. Treat her like the tricks that she's playing or you may get your heart broken.
2006-08-31 06:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not cut to the chase and ask her how she feels about you? How old is she anyway?! Let her know how you feel about her and that you want something more. If she doesn't feel the same way, at least you can move on and find someone else without wasting your time! (What the hell is "823'n"?) GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-30 22:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She LIKES you. But that doesn't mean she is ready to jump into bed with you. Liking someone and wanting a committed involved relationship with them are two different things. You don't really even KNOW each other yet, so I doubt you're as "smitten" with her as much as you are "smitten" with the idea of being "smitten" with her. So, she likes you. Let the relationship, if it's meant to be develop from there.
2006-08-30 22:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say, don't rush things.. and try not to spend so much time and energy dwelling on her.
The girl likes you - OK.. But do not run her away by expressing emotion and anger to quickly. You like her..OK.. but don't let her know that you're in love with her.
Keep the relationship fresh and be a bit mysterious. Stay friendly with her, but don't be all overbearing and get all excited just because she text mssg you.
Remember that it Ain't No Rush - if you truly like her, it will show in your actions - and she will pick-up on that.
Play it off - like she ain't even a big deal...but at the same time , be persistent.
On everything though..don't let her get to you! Don't let her stress you out.
2006-08-30 23:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds as if she sees the 2 of you as just friends, but talking to you so much in a day seems like she may feel more. Tell her, something good might happen out of it!
2006-08-30 22:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, what is 823'n? 2nd of all, she is either confused about the relationship like wether she likes you or not or she wants to keep you hanging while she finds a better guy .
2006-08-30 22:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by killer_duchess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, you can get a girl who talks to you all the time, and wants to spend time with you, but before you do that, get to know her better before you judge her, she might just be busy once in a while and she doesnt have time to talk, ask her when she is avaible, and when she isnt, so u aren't left hanging
2006-08-30 22:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by tootsie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem nice, there is no reason y shes not tellin the truth
2006-08-30 22:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by KinatheD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says she likes you the only thing you can do is take it for what its worth. just live in the moment. don't immediately fall in love with this girl - take care of your heart. just take things slow.
2006-08-30 22:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See bud this is a typical chick game..
Keeps you hanging..
And sure you should tell her.
If you don't someone else will..
2006-08-30 22:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Richardnoggin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋