i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kept on asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, when I never gave it to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
my friend says he's not shy at all.. so if he liked me.. wouldn't he have already asked me out? and now i can't stop thinking about him... the worst part is that we have another class together this year. and i tried saying hi to him.. but he completely ignored me. or maybe he just didn't hear me? DOES HE SEEM TO BE INto me?
2006-08-30 15:05:40 · 7 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is. I think he is/was totally crushing on you, but he just didn't know how to approach you about it. Like you said, you never gave him your name, so he was clearly interested enough to find out what it was. ;) And having a class with him is by no means a bad thing at all... if anything, it's an excellent excuse to talk to him!
You said that last year, he would ask you how the tests went for you, and then brag about getting A's. Well, maybe he was thinking that if you needed help studying, he could be the one to help you! So this year, maybe you ought to ask him if the class material is making sense to him, and if he says no, then ask him if he wouldn't mind studying together sometime. If he says yes, ask him if he'd like to study with you sometime, anyway. If anything, you two will become friends (and possibly more!) and your grades will go up! That's a win-win situation!
And you said your friend said he wasn't shy at all... that doesn't mean he should have asked you out by now. Guys have a ton of pressure on them when it comes to dating, too, and the worst part of it is the possibility of rejection.
I think that if you offered to study with him sometime, he'd take you up on it. The absolute worst thing that could happen is that he can't study with you due to extracirriular activities, in which case, ask him if you guys could meet during lunch to study. One thing is for sure, though... you'll totally be on his mind! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 15:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My expert view on this is that he really does like you, so go for it! He's NOT a jerk. You have nothing to lose.
Here's what's going on: someone like you can make a guy scared to ask you out, because he's afraid you'll say no. I've been there. We don't wana get rejected.
So here's what you do: hang out with him and his friends after class and talk about school related stuff. the first step for you is starting a conversation.
maybe you might wanna see if he can help you with your homework or studying. guys love that.
Find out things you two have in common with each other, then mention maybe you and him should do something you have in common together... with friends or something...
Just get to know him, and spend time with him, friends first.
Here's a neat trick: have your friends make friends with him. then have one of your friends envite him to go to the movies with the rest of your friends... but work out a deal for none of your friends to "be able to make it that day"... so it ends up being just you and him.
see if it works!
i really hope this advice is lots of help. :)
good luck!
2006-08-30 22:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by techronarrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to help you study for the next test in a class you both have together. You will have fun and learn more about him at the same time
2006-08-30 22:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approaching a person you like is ackward whether you are a boy or a girl. Why don't you just smile and start a conversation. Be nice and be yourself. Try not to be nervous and please do not put on an act...just be yourself! Good luck.
2006-08-30 22:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I think I answered this question yesterday. Anyway, forget about that jerk. He clearly thinks that he is better than you. You deserve to be treated with respect. Good luck and try to move on
2006-08-30 22:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol you chicks kill me..
How about approaching him and well ASK HIM OUT!
2006-08-30 22:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Richardnoggin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so but not sure
2006-08-30 22:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋