i am in a relationship and i've been in it for 9 months now and i am realizing they play 2 much. they say they take the relationship seriously but 2 me it seems they play alot. whether its about females or jus ridiculous things that have no point. he is two years older then me and i really wanna be with him but i just dont know what is goin on anymore. he says im the one but actions speak louder then words. i mean when i tried 2 end it he cried and told me i was breakin his heart so i stayed. he started always tellin me he loved me and callin me his sweetheart but now he has stopped again. and he always wit a female but he say thats jus a friend and i dont believe dat bull. one time we was on the phone and he told me he was finna go out wit da fellas. i call him later and a female answer sayin who is dat and i was sayin the same thing back he said imma call u back and hung up. i called right back and she sayin who da hell is dat and he put me on hold tryna calm her down so i hung up.
2006-08-30 14:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with him!! you deserve a hell of a lot better, and unless and until you end it, he's gonna think that treating you this way is acceptable. so get rid of him, and soon someone else will start calling you and wanting to go out with you. see what that guy has to offer. if your current boyfriend actually does care about you and this relationship, he'll see the competition and know that if he doesn't treat you better, someone else will. you deserve to be treated like a queen, honey
2006-08-30 15:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by katie m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has another woman on the side, or perhaps you are the one on the side. He's tapping both of you, playing you for the stupid fool.
Maybe you got into this relationship a bit too early. Bet he has a woman wit kids, even. He's gonna call you baby, baby, baby, and sweetheart, and all those sweet things, just to get you to stay in the relationship. but it's just for the sex, baby. So pack up and get out, quickly! Go hide!
2006-08-30 22:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd tell him to keep his girl and you should find you a new faithful boyfriend that wants to spend his time with you and wont be on bullshit. my ex-boyfriend did the same **** ( but we dated for 3 years) and i had to let him go. i dont regret it. but i will say it took some time to get over the relationship but i am happy as ever now!!! so good luck with your decision
2006-08-30 21:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if your unhappy instead of telling everyone why your unhappy tell your husbund and if nothing changes be serious and leave him
2006-08-30 21:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋