soo confused! * need advice*?

Question

ok like theres a guy i like, and I decided to ask him to the movies. we've talked a little before at like church, and a while back ago he had pushed my chair closer to his during youth group and just started talking to me. and we've danced together, sort of, during a school dance. but anyways, i asked him to the movie, and we went , but there wasn't much talking, and I think I should've called a few days after the movie thing, but I didn't, and he never called me and I saw him at church but we didnt really get a chance to talk, i was with my friends and he was with his.... but I smiled at him when i saw him and he did smile back. But i kinda feel like im being avioded, idk, like i always have to approach him, he won't come to me.. its like we never have a conversation unless i talk to him first, besides that one time when he had pushed my chair by his.. I think thats the only time he approched me first.. so should I try and talk to him still or does he not like me, or what should I do?

Answer 1

Keep smiling at him, but don't approach him anymore. You've already stuck your neck out, now it's time for him to meet you halfway. If he's interested, he'll do it (especially if you make it clear that you like him). If he doesn't approach, then he's not really into you.

Answer 2

I don't know kid. Times are different these days and girls are far more forward then they use to be. I guess you can contact him again and if you do have another date, you'll get a better feel of what he's thinking. Right now, I'd say you're fixated. Be careful and don't chase something that's not there. Give him another chance but don't go overboard...Good Luck!

Answer 3

it seems like you both like each other you both need to make time to talk with one another and leave the friends alone until you to hook up ps he could be shy to expect when he is close to you good luck

Answer 4

Act like you don't like him. Guys seem like what they can't have.