one of my friends broke up with this guy she kinda like about a month ago is it ok if i go out with him?????
2006-08-30 14:44:00 · 9 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its never ok to go out w/your best friends ex boyfriend its like in the guide to friendship
2006-08-30 14:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kayleighs Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of friendship that you have with her. If she is your best friend, then I would say no way. And if it is just a friend like any other friend and she liked him alot, I would wait a while longer but I would still date him. Don't let other people tell you what to do, and why the hell should they still have a hold on him, they broke up for a reason. But in general you should date whoever you want, don't let other people tell you what to do, you are probably worried about other peoples feelings but I wouldn't worry so much because your feelings matter too! And just to be on the safe side, maybe date secretly for a little while and then come out with it. Don't deny your feelings!
2006-08-30 14:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are broken up go for it. If she can't handle it, too bad. A true friend wants you to be happy, if you and he are happy she should be okay. You didn't break them up.
Only selfish people get upset and stop being friends because the other one dates their ex.
2006-08-30 14:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to give it a little time before u let people know, like 2 or 3 wks, then go over it with ur friend that time should let things heal
2006-08-30 14:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by bbrun5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it, but I would ask my friend for her opinion first, not to get an okay, but to make sure not to lose a friend.
2006-08-30 14:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no is not alright for you to go out with him! Find your own man i bet u wouldn't like it if she went out with one of your ex boyfriends.
2006-08-30 14:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her first to see how she feels about him. If it is ok then fine if not then back off.
2006-08-30 14:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it might ruin things with your best friend.
2006-08-30 14:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is yor friend ok with it??
2006-08-30 14:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hi!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋