2006-08-30 14:39:42 · 26 answers · asked by All american girl next door 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until he passes out, stick a big old glob of peanut butter down his undies. When he wakes up and gets that horrified look on his face, tell him you're not interested in dating someone who can't control his bowels.
2006-08-30 14:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all do ya love him? I know from experience that it's hard to just toss him out and find someone else. Try to talk to him. I finally ended up having to go to my friends house when my BF was drinking and i would leave my cell phone at home. My personal opinion is that if he remembers enough to apologize then he knows what he is saying when he is calling u names. If he doesn't agree that u are more important than the booze then, it may be time for u to "OUT WITH THE OLD, IN WITH THE NEW"
My BF didn't stop drinking completely, but he has slowed down a whole lot.
2006-08-30 21:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by michelle h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky your not married to him and have children with this man. Count your blessing. Dump him your worth more than that. One example if a man uses excuse that the drink made him do it. Funny how they always remember their behavior. By this I mean they use the drink as an excuse to justified the actions. Dump him fast
2006-08-30 21:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie get yourself out of this relationship! I'm telling you from experience that he has a serious problem and it's not you! You stay in this relationship and things are going to escalate to some other form of abuse. verbal abuse is emotional abuse,then comes the physical and flat out you plan on dying soon? Or walk around physically maimed for the rest of your life. Please think about what I've said I'm very serious about what I'm saying, no I'm not dead but I've got emotional issues from years of mental abuse and now I'm physically dealing with the fact that a wheel chair may be my next mode of walking from the physical abuse! Do not let your self be a victim please.................
2006-08-30 21:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by momof8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a boyfriend. You should be, and deserve to be treated with respect at all times. Getting drunk and doing rude things is very immature and very juvenile. Tell him to grow up.
Names and disrespect are unacceptable in any relationship.
2006-08-30 21:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by rjm96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or sober he has no right to be verbally abusive unless you give him the right. Verbal abuse often escalates to physical abuse. You don't need that. Get out and find someone you can have a real relationship with. A human being maybe.
2006-08-30 21:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of behavior is not okay, drunk or sober. The problem is that drunk people often say what sober people think. If he is a huge jerk drunk, it is only a matter of time before the abusive personalities appear while sober. Run- run fast. Abuse is abuse, and intoxication is no defense.
2006-08-30 21:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He drank then called you and called you stuff, doesnt seem like a great boyfriend but if he was like tanked i would understand and forgive him but if it was a couple drinks then i dont know i dont think he deserves you.
2006-08-30 21:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is no excuse to abuse someone in any way (verbal, physical, sexual). That behavior is intolerable.
Find someone else.
To accept an apology and continue the relationship is enabling and it will happen again.
2006-08-30 21:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget the dude...whether he is drunk or not, gives him NO excuse for being beligerant to you. He's just releasing things that are hidden deep down, that he feels towards you. I'm really sorry...but he's an ***!
2006-08-30 21:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brittni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋