would you go out with a guy in a wheelchair? I mean, I'm not asking any one to cyber or anything, but I never seem to keep a girl OR a guy. (I'm bisexual.) I'm good-looking enough. I actually look almost just like my avatar. I'm interesting, funny, and gracious! Is there just something that's a turn-off about a guy in wheels?
2006-08-30 14:33:55 · 21 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, I can have sex without "help".
2006-08-30 14:42:54 · update #1
I have no problem with a man in a wheelchair. But have a problem with a bisexual man. I like a man to be all straight ok
2006-08-30 14:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I could. The question is, are you, uh, functional down below? That may be what is keeping away the ladies. They can't actually come right out and ask you, so they probably just avoid the situation entirely. Hey, but if my man got hurt tonight and put in wheels tomorrow, I would stick around. An awesome personality and sense of humor can get you real far. I would just make him take me for rides when my legs get tired. Hey, have you ever taken that thing off a ramp, you know, all X-games style? That would ROCK!
2006-08-30 21:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by honk2goose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hello, fellow bi here, but I'm a girl. I don't necessarily think it's a TURNOFF to be with someone in a wheelchair, if you're a great guy, and "interesting, funny and gracious" as you claim, then honey, you just need to wait for the right one to come along. EVERYONE has a soulmate :] i wish you the best of luck!
2006-08-30 21:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by ilovehermione918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with a guy on a wheelchair. To me such a thing wouldn't be an issue. Of course now I won't do such a thing but that's because I have a bf, but if I didn't and someone in a wheelchair asked me out I wouldn't say no.
2006-08-30 21:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality in check, yes there are. At least in a physical side, person in a wheelchair fall shorts but in personalities you sounds like a great guy worth to check upon. Eventually you'll find someone who dig you for who you are.
2006-08-30 21:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by NikeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yea i would if I became his friend. I dont have any hard feelings on ppl who are disabled, or stuff like that. If someone doesnt like you, it was probely because they just didnt like YOU. If they ditched you because of your wheelchair, then you are way better then them. You deserve someone who is nice, funny, interesting, loving, and is cute. You be yourself, and the girls (and in your case guys) will come flooding to you. *wInK WiNk*
2006-08-30 21:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no actually just never thought of it really, id always be a little worried that id say somthing stupid and insult him but if hes easy going about it theres absoultely no turn off in it im confused at how certain more errr intamate acts would be preformed but considering you look like you avater your a really good looking guy and id be intressted. (if i hadnt met you over the internet.)
2006-08-30 21:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, that's really sad. I'd go out with you. I really can't find anyone and I'm not bad looking. Atleast you have the wheelchair as an excuse!
2006-08-30 21:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much because it's a turn-off. Sometimes people just feel uncomfortable, like they are scared they might offend them somehow. And sometimes it's hard because you might not be able to do things that they want to do. I'm not quite sure but I personally wouldn't mind....
2006-08-30 21:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it was TRUE LOVE then maybe I would, I mean that sucks majorly. Honestly at this point in my life probably not just because I don't want a relationship at all. Period.
2006-08-30 21:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by LalaLola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋