i'm a guy in my late 20's . i met a lady at a party. we had alot of things and common , live near by and seemed to like get along nicely so we ended up exchanging email addresses at the end of the night. the other day i email her and say something like, 'hey, i want to want to catch a movie tomorrow, want to come?' and she says 'sure' . we both approached this very casually and not so much as a date (not that i wouldnt want to ask this girl out) . at this point, i don't know if this is a "date" and i should it approach it such (pay for the dinner and the movie etc) . obviously, i dont know wheather or not if SHE thinks of this as a date either. IS THIS A DATE and SHOULD I APPROACH IT AS SUCH? i'd like your oppinion..thanks.
2006-08-30 14:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it sounds to me, if you are interested in her for dating, it is...a date. If not...then it is friends. if you are the only two going, I would say date. If it is a group...I woudl say friends. And if you are interested in her, and you think she has interest, I would buy here the ticket and have fun! I have had this happen to me...and it was a DATE. Don't feel unconfortable though.
2006-08-30 14:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkish Marsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might turn out to be a date, but since you both made the plans rather casually, you should just treat it casually. Split the dinner check and buy your own ticket. Focus on getting to know her and having good time and don't put any pressure on yourself. If it goes well and she's signaling interest, ask her out again.
2006-08-30 14:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a date; you asked her, and she accepted. Take her to the movies, pay the tab, and have fun.
If you happen to say, "can we do this again", and she says yes, then you will have another date.
If you ask the girl out, it's your place to pay the tab unless she says, upon acceptance, "yes, but only if you let me pay ( my tab, or for both).
She might suggest on future dates, that you alternate paying.
But you have a date, guy!
2006-08-30 14:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she went with u once and she does it again then it meens she definetly likes u and try after u go out about 3-4 times take the lead and do a move on her if she answers to it then go 4 her
2006-08-30 14:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's interested in you, if she wasnt then she wouldnt give you her email. Girls are usually picky about who they date, and especially who they give there email's to. So it sounds like you could approach this as a date. =]
2006-08-30 14:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by colour_my_world<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been asked out by someone and its the first time for both of you, then yes it is a date. read more on daying on this site
2006-08-30 14:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a casual date but very much a date so take it as it goes
2006-08-30 14:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds like a date, but don't give her any flowers or candy. Don't give her any gifts.
Since you invited her; offer to pay, but you don't have to if she insists.
She'll probably think of it as a date too.
2006-08-30 14:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
techincally it is but dont get to caught up in it ask her out again if she says yes then its a date for sure the first one worked didnt it?
2006-08-30 14:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by stxplayer46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a getting acquainted encounter. She will probably want to go Dutch.
2006-08-30 14:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋