My daughter had been playing with herolder brother and fell off her bed and hit her arm on a hard plastic toy. It left a really nasty bruise. The next day I went to the grocery store and a girl that works at a store across the street and asked me in a nasty voice how I could do that to her! I was so shocked b/c my daughter is far from abused (but she is like me and clumsy!) How would you have handled this? I did say thatI didn't do it and my son said she fell but I can't believe I even had to say that much! (By the way there wasn't even so much as a scraped knee or hair out of place otherwise on my little girl)
2006-08-30 14:22:24 · 19 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The clerk was out of place to say anything at all. Personally I would report her to the store manager. As you know you do not abuse your daughter, I wouldnt worry. All you needed to do was inform the very nosy clerk that she fell and hit her arm, and to accuse people of something so serious as child abuse is very irresponsible on her part.
2006-08-30 14:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If thats is what happened to your daughter (and believe me,I have a 12 yr old girl and a 9 yr old boy,so I know how kids are)....I would go right to the manager and file a formal complaint against her and also mention having a laywer....that should do the trick...or you can beat her ***....I prefer the second one,but by law you shouldn't do that one....lol.....good luck!
2006-08-30 14:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by NaeNae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's upsetting. I can see someone being concerned, but they shouldn't jump to conclusions. What would I do? I'd probably say, "I would never lay a hand on my daughter. I am very offended by your remark. Get facts before you accuse people of something so horrible. How would you feel if you were in my shoes?"
2006-08-30 14:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by nomadsister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have had to explain anything to this store clerk obviously she is a busy body who has never had a child. if you go into this store a lot and you feel that you are being mistreated or recieveing bad customer service contack her manager and explain aboubt the rude nosy employee he has and if that doesnt work take your buisness elsewhere confronting the lady does no good you know you dont abuse your daugther you dont need to explain yourslef to random strangers.
2006-08-30 14:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by heather d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i could initiate suitable around 2. 2 is the perfect gaining knowledge of degree. If she trys to hop of try giving her rewards for making use of the potty. Lik ever time she makes use of it properly she gets a dime and then on the tip of the month u can take her procuring and she or he would be able to %. out her own little particular toy.good good fortune!
2016-12-14 15:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by ketcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I hate when stuff like that happens. Just try to let it go because you know there is nothing wrong with her. I always worry about that with my youngest. He's 3 and our little daredevil with constant scrapes and bruises.
2006-08-30 14:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by bobbysgirl703 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a story for ya...
when i was a baby, my aunt and grandma took me to jcpenney while my mom was at work (they watched me during the day) that morning i had fallen off my grandmas bed and hit my head on the post leaving a bruise and a bit of a scratch. when my aunt used her credit card at the cashier, it displayed her name and the cashier called child protective services!! when my dad came to pick me up at my grandmas house, a guy from child protective services was there! my grandma had to explain to the guy that i had fallen off the bed and luckily my dad had already heard the story and could back it up.... after that jcpenney got a nasty letter from my aunt!
2006-08-30 14:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla-Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU HANDLE IT LIKE A TRUE LADY IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ME I WOULD HAVE SAID YOU NEED TO CONTINUE CHECKING OUT MY GROCERIES AND DO YOUR JOB YOU MINIMUM WAGE EARNING THING YOU. AND TELL HER IT WAS NONE OF HER BUSINESS AND PERHAPS IF SHE HAD CHILDREN OF HER OWN SHE WOULD NOT ASK DUMB QUESTIONS LIKE THAT. THEN I WOULD HAVE GONE TO HER BOSS AND REPORTED HER *** AND TOLD THE MANAGEMENT BEING THAT THEY HIRE PEOPLE WHO GIVES COMMENTS TO THINGS THAT IS NONE OF HER CONCERN I WILL NOT BE RETURNING TO SHOP. AND SEE ALL THE @SS KISSING FLY ALL OVER THE PLACE. BUT YOU DID WELL I AM PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!AND OR MAYBE TELL SOMETHING LIKE LETS GO OUTSIDE TO FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENED ANS WE WOULD HAVE BEEN SCRAPING RIGHT OUTSIDE THE STORE...... BUT I UNDERSTAND YOU WHERE WITH THE KIDS. BUT NEXT TIME SPEAK UP WOMAN FOR YOUR KIDS AND YOUR YOURSELF.....
2006-08-30 14:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to mind her own business or you will make her look worse than your daughter.
Actually you should complain to the store manager.
2006-08-30 14:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mustang Gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cashier was waaaay out of line.
I would be pissed off for a while but, it doesn't matter as long as you know you are a wonderful mom.
2006-08-30 14:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by tmweber 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋