In a relationship. Is it better to be upfront about each others sexual past? or Are you better off not knowing?
2006-08-30 14:22:03 · 9 answers · asked by dbrady 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For me.. It's something I need to know..
2006-08-30 14:23:12 · update #1
well for me i dont want to know cause when im haveing sex i will be thinking of who this chic is imaging that i am
will it be the guy she dated in high school or the one finished in 30 seconds
but then i do want to know cause what if this chic has slept with every tom di ck and harry on the block and she has the gift that keeps on giving ( STD)
damn now i dont want to date any more thankz a lot dbrady
2006-08-30 14:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see where it is necessary. We should live the moment,
not the past. And frankly, I do not want to know. I am interested
in the person. Right here right now, not who you did, or what you did. Hopefully if both partners are a good judge of character,
no surprises should come up anyway. Maybe later, when
you really trust each other and are comfortable discussing it.
2006-08-30 14:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by rjm96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a toughie. Couples differ. For us, it was better to be up front. For most, it is better to be up front, because chances are, it is going to come out eventually anyways, and then you get hurt feelings becuase they never told you. However, there are some people who it would be better to not tell. You just kind of have to judge who you and your partner are and go from there.
2006-08-30 14:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About each others sexual past..... well i never told mine to my bf i am with now and dont plan to and never asked him about his. but if one day the conversation just happened to pop up then i guess it would be okay. But for now i think you should let the past be past and yes it is better not knowing. but if you are just that curious then thats you. and i think its fine and he should be fine with it.
2006-08-30 14:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be straight up about it. Ya know? Don't lie about it, or hold it in. Just talk to each other about it. You are better off that way.
2006-08-30 14:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girls need to know everything and us men just want to be mysterious. of course notify each other of any std's. but DON'T ask "how many"? we think "f*ck! it's a trap, now i'm not getting any for a month!"
2006-08-30 14:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better off not knowing,,,my man told me of his past and hell i wish he had never told me!!!! somethings should be kept to yourself
2006-08-30 14:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude straight up you should know its better to know then not know and something terrible happens
2006-08-30 14:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by stxplayer46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't open the box unless you are willing to face the monster."
Don't ask, don't volunteer.
2006-08-30 14:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Frosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋