Alright, so there is this dude I like but... He happens to be goth. Not totally but, you know... Black clothes, nails, eye makeup. Just the basics. I guess I can say I'm pretty punk but does it mean I need to dress more dark for him to like me?
2006-08-30 14:21:19 · 13 answers · asked by PsYcHoTicLoVe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to change to attract him, he'll probably only be attracted to your exterior. Sad but true. About goth: you either are, or you aren't. Dressing 'goth' or listening to 'dark' music won't make you goth, as goth is a lifestyle, a state of mind. Besides, only really immature people get hung up on labels anyway. Be nice to the guy, and if he doesn't like you for you, don't change for him.
2006-08-31 11:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, goth is weird. That doesn't answer the question though, does it?
I believe that what you have to do to get someone, you'll have to do to keep them. In other words, if they don't like you for who you are, than it's not worth it. Maybe it is for you though.
Also, ask yourself why he is "goth." Is he depressed or angry? In my experience, people I've met that are goth are that way for a reason and not JUST because they think it looks cool. Is he looking like that to impress friends? Get attention? To make a statement? What's the statement?
I'm not trying to bash him. I'm just saying, ask yourself these things. It's kinda important.
2006-08-30 14:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by timmyjohnboy1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If he likes you trust me it doesn't matter if you were Goth , Punk , Emo, Urban or more Preppy then Paris Hilton in pearls. Boys like what they like, and if you two are compatable then have fun. If not, then you can still be friends and share what your views , you will find out that people really aren't that different from each other.
2006-08-30 14:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, just be you. He might not like that, but if you fake being goth-y, then I guarantee he won't like you.
You always have a better shot with honesty. Besides, people often like people different than themselves. I know I do -- life's more fun that way!
2006-08-30 14:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, my brother is goth and he has dated a outgoing "normal" girl and he dated a girl who was a model too... goth guys like normal girls too.
2006-08-30 14:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u when ur goth then he wont like the real you
2006-08-30 14:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he will accept you for who you are. Don't go changing yourself for anyone
2006-08-30 14:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by LOST and CONFUSED 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no! Don't change yoursef for a guy. When you find the right guy, he will like you for who you are, not what he wants you to be.
2006-08-30 14:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by colour_my_world<3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself for anyone. If he doesn't like you for you, don't even bother.
2006-08-30 14:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should like yu for who you are if not he;s not worth it
2006-08-30 14:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by TropicalGlitter31103 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋