the one i have a crush on...or more than crush..told me that he has 2 crushes. And i am the second. When I found out about that...im just trying to forget about him...without him noticing it. But, i can't forget about him when he is aways texting me and he is trying to be a close friend to me. Sometimes...i thought that i'm on the first already but i'm still in the second in his heart. I just can't tell him to "stop being nice to me, coz i will not be able to forget you."
2006-08-30 14:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Angeline_Love16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ya gotta ask, forget him!
Reading your question, yeah, forget about him. Ignore his texts and try to pull away. Why would you want to be crush #2 when you could be someone's #1? He is just playing with your heart and probably doesn't really care about you (even if he thinks he does). Love doesn't play like that.
2006-08-30 14:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to keep you around so eventually he is hoping you will give in and he can get something sexual out of it dont be a fool i know your young but take it from us older ones he is only going to use you and if he has two crushes thats all it is a crush??? a crush is not true love or soemthing meaning in your life that you can be happy about move on and let him bite his nails over the fact he stuffed up you too good for that
2006-08-30 14:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then put your self in first position, tell him how u fell about him when he text u again and let him know that u can't talk to him for a while if u r still in 2nd place, let him know y u can't talk to him for a while.
2006-08-30 14:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better than his left-overs. he just wants to keep you on his back burner. do you really feel like competing for him? you shouldn't HAVE to. just start playing it cool and don't be available to him. you are too available for him. he will start to wonder why you aren't coming around and if you mean anything to you and he decides to come back, it will be by YOUR choice-not his. don't let him take away your power, girl. good luck.
2006-08-30 14:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block his number. Out of sight out of mind.
2006-08-30 14:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser. ignore him. you deserve to be number 1. and the guy who recognizes that is the only type of guy you should even consider.
2006-08-30 14:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something that you can just turn on or off.
2006-08-30 14:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him tell him if your not first your last
2006-08-30 14:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find someone else to put your attention on....that will make you his first but then you wont need him because you have someone else!
2006-08-30 14:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else he dosent seem worth it
2006-08-30 14:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by TropicalGlitter31103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋