ok well, i love my girlfriend, but we're not aloud to kiss and so we havnt. but today i tried to hug her, and she backed off... but she has this guy... which everyone who knows her has told me she likes, and hes like her best "guy" friend, and she hugs him all the time. i already know he likes her, but if she likes him and can go out with him, why is she draggin it out between us? and do u think she does like him or what? please please help.
2006-08-30 14:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i dont wanna dump her bcuz i really do love her.... and she hasnt known him longer, ive known her since 1st grade, shes known him for like 3 years....
2006-08-30 14:17:52 · update #1
eh. please take me seriously but im 13.... and its not that she wont kiss me, shes not alowwed. and her parents watch her like hawks. and at school, theres no kissing rule and there are always school "Aids" in the hallways and everything.
2006-08-30 14:28:41 · update #2
i think she likes him and having a hard time decide who she wants just talk with her and ask her and if she does then just let her go its not worth being cheated on
2006-08-30 14:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi *DX Danny Guthrie *HBK*,
First off, I don't know how old you are, but a girl that won't kiss or hug you isn't your girlfriend. There are plenty of girls out there that love to kiss and hug. There are some girls out there that will pretty much hug everyone.
Second off, if she's got a boy friend it should always be "Hands off". It's Bro's before Ho's. Some day you will have a girl friend and you will understand and appreciate that saying. Stop being this girl's pet, that is there to keep her entertained when her real boy friend isn't around. She sounds like she might be an attention whore, so don't pander to that. Don't do that.
Third, you need to be looking around for other girls that will treat you better. There are plenty of them around that would love to be with a nice guy like you. You just need to say hello, introduce yourself, and start talking with them.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-30 21:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a confusing situation, i'm sorry you have to be in it =/
first off, it really sucks you two aren't allowed to kiss!
i don't really understand why she would back off when you tried to hug her? thats really weird.
i don't know about this other guy either, maybe she just hugs him because shes known him longer or something? i hope so at least.
i wish you the best
2006-08-30 21:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Skullface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to sit down and discuss some issues here.You need to tell her how you feel and let her respond. Without communication you will have a very rocky relationship. You need to express your feelings about how she makes you feel when she pulls away from you when you try to hug her and also how it makes you feel when you see her hug the other guy.
2006-08-30 21:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by cindy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude shes not being a good gf too u, i say dump her before she dumps u cuz either way shes going to end up with that guy if he ask here out once.....
2006-08-30 21:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes him "as a friend" and this is why she feels comfortable hugging him. maybe because she knows that she doesn't have a "love" interest in him..
2006-08-30 21:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her, and see what happens, she gets with that other guy, fine you get yourself a hot slutty squeeze, that'll make'em twist with anger and jealousy. keep in mind, she's the game YOU'RE the player.
2006-08-30 21:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a girl that you can kiss.
2006-08-30 21:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably a cry for attention or she's just sick of the relationship and needs some space
2006-08-30 21:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by hotcherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to beat it. You dont have time to play games!
2006-08-30 21:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by dominator007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋