I must have honest,faithful and loyal woman.
2006-08-30 13:41:52 · 38 answers · asked by joedylaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look for one, try the gym, a concert, book store, dance floor, in volunteer programs, at work, at school. they can be anywhere, open your heart and shut your eyes.
2006-08-30 13:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you don't just leave things to chance, you actually want to find that special someone.
Because everyone is made different, you have to answer the following question.
The type of girl you want.. where would you imagine her doing? What would she like? Then think of places that she would go. Those would be great places to start.
that's just 1/2 the pie. The other 1/2 is actually yourself.
You may want to be a millionaire.. but your life would not necessarily be setup for it. therefore being a millionaire would not be a reality. Same analogy with relationship, you should be the best you can be.. I think the person you want will notice you and find you instead.
2006-08-30 13:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's so many places to go. Like the park, library, church, shopping, movies, restaurants, ect. You can't expect to sit at home behind closed doors and your soul mate show up on your doorstep. You do have to put some kind of action in it. However, don't assume the first person you date is your soulmate. Give it time and you will know. Don't be in a hurry.
2006-08-30 13:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by delorisjp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your soul mate will find you. Finding the connection is not like getting a job. You might already know her. Relax and your positive energy will guide her your way. Surround yourself with positive people and you might get recommended by a friend. Remember when you are looking for silk, don't go pickin' in a cotton field! Barflies will be there flying all the time. Your social life should be with women that carries the qualities you are searching for. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 13:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Egypt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't find them.. Your soul mate will just come by at the right time mostly at the most unexpected places..
That is,,,if your soulmate is also in this lifetime..
Soulmates are not always loyal..They teaches you...
2006-08-30 13:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soulmate is someone that you love, and trust beyond words. You can meet a thousand people, and never find your soulmate. It's something that just happens. I found mine, he was my lifetime soulmate, and passed away last summer. I'll probably never be lucky enough to ever find another. They're one of a kind
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2006-08-30 13:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really good question. Just stay open to the possibility and one day you will round a corner and there she will be. The loneliness up until then can't be avoided entirely, but it will be worth it all. Just keep your faith and keep trying. I don't think you would have the desire for one if there wasn't some one for you probably feeling the same way.
2006-08-30 13:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is someone out there meant especially for you, she will arrive at the right time. But that doesn't mean, you will just wait there and wait for her. Try going out and observe. Who knows, she might just be someone you really know yet you have taken for granted for the longest time because you are too focused on finding what you think is the one for you. Don't just rely on destiny or fate, you still have to do something because chances are she's also just doing nothing to find you.
2006-08-30 14:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by pRoFouNd PrOfunDiTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the greatest place to find a soulmate would be at school or at work .Sometimes your most likely to fall in love with someone who knows you better than you know yourself.
2006-08-30 13:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Angelica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOE:
I hate to drop this balloon on you, but you definately will not find your soul mate here...A soul mate will find you-thats what sucks about life. We search and seek for that one special person, we look under every nook and cranny, every corner of the world, we usually walk right past them and not know! Thats the beauty of it! They find you first usually by sheer accident, sometimes by bumping in to you, being involved in the same interest you are, but another place, time, and area. Many never find them and they search all their life, and their right next to you! Some find them later in life and its to late another has you or them. It is as old as time, this soul mate thing. We ponder, search, seek, worry, and tred on this particular subject! The old saying is: " Seek and ye shall find, but don't expect the answer"! Life is so short, we each have to live the best we can each day, hour,minute, second. All us search and some of us get lucky-unfortunately, like me, we find our total soulmate too late.When you meet them, you know it automatically-but alas it is hard for all of us. Time has passed you by-and no one wants to listen or hear you! Each of us in this fast paced world have not the time to really seek what they want. Life is cruel in that aspect. But at least you were /could be one of those very fortunate, lucky few who find their mates and truly know it, before your your committed else where. One seeks and finds what she/he wants, and sometimes---Just sometimes you get lucky........:) :)
2006-08-30 14:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your lookin it will never happen. I found my soul mate at 19 years old and we have now been married fro over 12 years. Good luck cuz there's no other feelin in da world than sharin my life with my soul mate
2006-08-30 13:45:20 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋