I'm 32 and I have never dated a women my own age. I always seem to date girls 22-26. My current GF is 22. These do not last very long (except this one is a great relationship) But I am just not into the baggage it seems with women my own age. I am lucky to look very young for my age, and still feel like am 25. But I am very responsible and am looking to finally settle down. I have a lot to offer, but I am I barking up the wrong tree with these younger girls?
2006-08-30 13:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try older ones!
2006-08-30 13:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all there is nothing wrong with dating someone younger as long as they are legal and the age difference isnt such a large gap that there are obvious differences in maturityh level.........i think we can all agree that 22 isnt the most mature age for anyone, male or female
however, as a 32 year old man, what could you possibly have in common with 22 year old girls?
not all women your age have baggage, lol
a younger love once in a while isnt so bad, but if you constantly seek out the younger women, you may need to investigate what about women you age makes you feel insecure (trust me, you cant blame "baggage" for this, lol)
2006-08-30 20:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by Willow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's an interesting question. The truth is that a 22 year-old will eventually look for something more..it's true. You can go ahead and enjoy it while it last but if it is going to last forever, you might as well get used to the thought that you are going to be ready to really settle down long before she is. I am the opposite. I am 30 and date men older than me because I know I have a better chance of finding the one who is grown up, got their life together and have figured out that life shared with another person is all about being in your comfort zone, and it's on more of a mental level..not too many games. And let me tell you my friend, that is a great place to be..one step closer to contentment.
2006-08-30 20:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by wizardburg28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a ten year age difference is alot. It depends on maturity.
But, well, you don't seem very mature because you want a girl
"with no baggage". Everybody has some kind of baggage, it just
depends on what it is. And I think you are mainly talking about
"children". You want a young carefree, pretty, slim, good job, a
nice car. With NO HANGUPS. Are you that shallow ?....
Sooner or later....your next girlfriend will have something about
her that you don't like. And you will probably be criticizing her,
cause " she's not that same girl you met"!!! You need to dig
REALLY deep inside yourself and find out what a good relation-
ship is............
2006-08-30 20:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty much. maybe you should look for older girls(27-31).
The girls you are dating probably are not looking to settle down. It's pretty rare that they do. In this age, they are more career minded.
2006-08-30 20:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad, without trust you will likely find more of the same.
“If you haven’t figured it out by the time your 30 -- you never will.”
2006-08-30 20:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋