Ok, there's this girl i reaaaaaaaaaally like, and i've liked her for about a year now. But my problem is shes always going out with someone. And when her and that person are about to break up, she always confides in me, which i really dont mind, i like it. But now she's going back out with her first bf...and they've gone out like 3 times already and now for some reason shes going back out with him. And i know she liked me at one time and thought about going out with me when she dumpped this same boyfriend after the 1st or 2nd time...And this guy is soooo wrong for her, i mean shes a good christian girl, she wears dark clothes and likes punk music, but the guy he's into death metal and a total little punk, he steals, drinks, smokes, and he's done sexual stuff with my other friend while they were going out, and i've told this girl all this stuff but she still wants to go out with him...she doesnt even know why...Please give me some good advice. thanks. no goofy crap please.
2006-08-30 12:51:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't see you as boyfriend material
2006-08-30 12:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey there, wow, what a problem...Listen you sound like a awesome guy. She probably doesn't even know how you feel. Ask her, but don't freak her out! just tell her how you feel. If she rejects you then reconsider your choice in "crushes". If she cannot even see that the person that's right for her is right in front of her then SHE has a problem.......branch out a little! The way you sound, you might have no problem getting a girl.
hope i helped! update me if anything big happens!
2006-08-30 20:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to learn her own lessons, even if it's with punches. I mean, she already knows this guy isn't good for her, so it's completely up to her. You're her friend and you did all you could. Now, about dating her, I think you're too deep in the "friend zone" now, it will be difficult. But who knows, maybe after things go bad with the punk she wants to be with you could try again.
2006-08-30 19:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let her make up her own mind. You telling her that he wrong for her just submarines your chances of ever being with her. Go out with other girls and if she really likes you she might realize what she is missing. Either that or you might find someone you reaaaaallllyyyyy like more.
2006-08-30 19:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl , sounds like she is irational and does not make decisions with her mind ,not the kind of girl you want, do alot of stupid things and blame it on PMS
2006-08-30 20:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joe soe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really trash someone needs to convince her. How about her other friends? You need to be interested in her wellfare and then your dating. Get someone to get her to understand the situation with this guy.
2006-08-30 19:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Papa John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You waited too long, you have crossed over into..... the "just friends zone" *twilight zone music plays in the background*
2006-08-30 19:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't know you like her, and she wants a boyfriend for security purposes.
2006-08-30 19:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There truly is only one logical solution. Take him out.
2006-08-30 19:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about her
cuz if she liked you
she would have made a move
while she was single
duhhhh
2006-08-30 20:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on mate, find someone else. dont stand for being second best. good luck
2006-08-30 19:59:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋