I can't talk to girls comfortably. Can you guys and gals help? I just don't know how to interact with them. I've gone to all boy schools my whole life and I'm a sophmore in high school this coming year. Thanks guys.
2006-08-30 12:50:57 · 22 answers · asked by something 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww, where are you going to school? i'll talk to you. lol. just be nice and friendly and SMILE. it's akward at first, but gets easy with practice. be yourself and you can start with any opener, like "im new here, where is the......?" or "can you show me where the ........ is? im........ by the way" or "have you had this teacher before? im new here, my name is....."
2006-08-30 12:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by beckray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, RELAX. Females are people too. If you can interact with guys you can with females just as easy. Take time to sit back and observe. Everyone is different. Some girls are tomboys and like to interact like one of the boys. Other girls are more feminine and like to hang out with their girlfriends. If you are confused, a simple "hello" is a great way to start. Let them take the lead in the conversation until you are better at "reading" girls. Once you get a chance to interact with them and are adjusted, you'll feel much more comfortable. Good luck to you.
2006-08-30 20:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by TC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "specific" way to talk to girls. There is no manual, no how-to tutorial to initiate a conversation to the fairer sex.
The only advice I can give you is to:
1. Be yourself.
2. Be respectful to girls (without kissing their a-s-s)
3. Try not to be too crude.
4. Try to act considerate.
This should help you initiate a conversation. As far as interacting with girls, each girls is different. Its like reading a book, each book can be good (or bad) and each book is a different story. Enjoy the uniqueness. And, whatever you do, don't expect anything. The thing about girls is that you can expect the unexpected.
Good luck and just remember that you'll never be successful if you don't TRY!
TX Guy
2006-08-30 19:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls can just set a man back with their confidence and in some cases straight forwardness - you cant think of a girl being all girly and pretty with flowers cus in most cases this is not the case - just be yourself - say Hi when you see someone you like - ask her how her day has been - women like the man to be interested in her so this is a good start - make it your priority to make one girl smile everyday either just by a Hi or hows ya day or a compliment maybe - there will be a day when you actually get the number - good luck kiddo
2006-08-30 19:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by rampant_rocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that too, all through high school, but I have been out of high school for years now and I have couple of girls that I talk to all the time and One that I talk to every day. I think the trick is not to worry about things. i.e if your going to end up acting like a idiot just be yourself and if the girl like you she will talk to you if not then look around the corner I bet you will find another one.
2006-08-30 20:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by B to the E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about what she likes -- music, books, sports -- whatever you think you can discuss for more than five minutes.
Don't get too close or touchy-feely, but don't sit so far away or so stiffly that you're obviously uncomfortable. The best approach is just to appear relaxed and casual -- talk yourself into ACTUALLY feeling like the first conversation or two don't matter; they're just for warmup. Then you'll have the right combination, and it won't seem fake.
2006-08-30 19:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in a both boys and girls high school right now, you can talk to girls through your guy friends. When your comfortable enough with one person, you can talk with her one on one
2006-08-30 19:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Benjamin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even worry about it talk to girls as if they were anyone else just no fart jokes or stuff like that every once in a while you will find one that is just like one of the guys but other than that just talk to her like any other person but in a more mature way hope this helps good luck!!
2006-08-30 19:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like ur talking to a guy and if it helps just look somewhere remotely close to the girl so u can talk with out acting like an idiot lol
2006-08-30 19:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boy! want U realize something great about urself dat the girls will luv. Girls are humans just like boys.all d best.
2006-08-30 19:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by smiling G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋