if u met a guy who was the most caring, loving and thoughtful guy uv ever met or wished for. would u leave him if he was not to good in bed???
2006-08-30 12:38:43 · 48 answers · asked by Barson 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fishpaste wasnt talking about u sorry. just thought id ask ppl as if u all said i would leave him i would think that pretty shallow of u as why dont women ask how to make their men better in bed. ur all(mostly) right longs as u have a good partner to take care of u then nowt else really matters, sex aint everthing
2006-08-30 13:35:02 · update #1
lol ThereIsNoHope
2006-08-30 13:39:23 · update #2
a caring guy is always ALWAYS a better bet, you don't want a nasty nutter who is good in bed cause apart from being nasty he would probably be in others bed too.
2006-08-30 20:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by toads 1 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. If he wasn't good in bed you can teach him to be better and then he knows that at least you care about him and not about the sex. I wouldn't leave him because of that especially if he was caring and loving, you don't find many guys out there any more like that.......
2006-08-30 12:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by butterflygirl790 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'll teach him. If you experience that try watching some porn with your mate to get a few tricks to try. The more you practice the better it can get. Don't worry about that girl, probably her lost. I would rather have a caring guy not that great in bed versus a low life who is good in bed.
2006-08-30 12:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by pinkdiamond_rochee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No; it would be silly to do such a thing! There are sooooo many ways a couple can work on improving their sex life. If he was everything I was looking for but was not good in bed I would make sure we worked on that area in the relationship. I would also want to ensure I was satisfying him sexually. Sex is a two way street and if one of us is not satisfied that means sex is not good. I would stay with him and just work on our sexual compatibility.
2006-08-30 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great sex does not happen over night. It is a process that has to be learned. Television, movies,and music only glorifies sex as great all the time. If the guy is shy, then he would have to slowly become comfortable with the woman.
I would never leave any guy if they respected me and treated me like a queen over one issue.
2006-08-30 16:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. because if you wanted to be with that person there are more than a thousand ways to improve him not being good in bed issue.
Sex is only a minor part, but finding those qualities in someone else might be too d**n hard to find
2006-08-30 12:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say no but i would be determined to make him better in bed . so if this is u be open to learning a few tricks for the girl . tell her if u really care about her and let her take the lead and show u what she likes . U can teach a old dog new tricks with the right treats ........
2006-08-30 12:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No I wouldn't, we all learn through experience and that takes time and trust, a lot of people are shy and have little experience but who has the right to say they are no good in bed.
2006-08-30 13:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! hmmm, well i might. Even though we connect emotionally, if he's unable to connect physcially with me....what's the point of continuing on in the relationship.
HOWEVER, if he admitted he wasnt very good in bed and willing and excited to learn. Id love to take on a new student. Sometimes discovering with your partner is a HUGE sexual turn on :)
2006-08-30 12:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by nat04 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope. There's a lot you can teach someone. If you have a heart, you work on it with them in a kind and caring way that doesn't diminish them as a person. No-one is born 'sexually experienced'.
2006-08-30 14:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change that, all you have to do is tell him what you want in bed, and if he still doesn't know get some books that will help you guys out. My answer is yes.
2006-08-30 12:43:30 · answer #11 · answered by tanya d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋