Why do some guys think it is okay to let their mom treat their wife like crap? Even when the wife is pregnant? It is like mother like son for some men, not all. I do not understand how someone could do that to a person. And then completely choose his mom over his wife all together.
2006-08-30 11:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by harleyweightintx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ha ha! you met my ex didn't you????
he doesn't love his wife. plain and simple! i learned that one the hard way. after my ex, any guy that even started to ask me out, got this one question "do you live with your mother?" if no....i gave my number or went on a date. next question was..."where is your mother and how is your relationship?" if the relationship wasn't good, the guy was perfect. ( i was really scarred by the whole mother in law thing) My husband's mother past away before i came into the picture.
the husband need to be made clear by the wife....who is sleeping in his bed? who's the one that promised to take care of him in sickness and in health? and who promised back that same thing??
2006-08-30 12:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some (boys) men aren't ready for a wife but because mama want's grand children they marry for that reason only and never truly leave their mother. If the (boy) man chooses his mother over the wife it's time for the wife to be an ex!!
2006-08-30 19:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad you became pregnant and witnessed this. When you're pregnant lots of things hurt really deeply--especially things that even hint of your lack of importance to the person who helped you get in the condition. And to realize all of the tribulation you will have to endure to get out of the condition; at the very least the husband could be a man to you. I know how you feel in this respect. It's a hard pill to swallow but I don't think you have much of a choice now. Try to stay calm during this time. Surround yourself with people who love you. Try not to focus on it and get through this with a healthy baby and a healthy you.
2006-08-30 19:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men dont know how to grow up and when things go wrong if they have noone else to run to they run to mom and mom is there to baby they big a** like they cant handle a situation themselves and for the men that choose mom over wife well wife should kick his a** out and tell him go sleep with mom since you want to choose sides
2006-08-30 19:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to choose. It's you or his mommy. That is a complete deal breaker.
2006-08-30 19:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take his as$ to therapy or something!
You've got to get this resolved or you're gonna resent him forever, for good reason.
good luck
or.......you could make his sweet mommie a cup of hot tea and arsenic.....
2006-08-30 19:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Krn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do some chicks feel it's necessary to (try and) change a guy? It doesn't work.
2006-08-30 19:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋