help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok im in a state o shock from seeng my brother kissing a guy what should i do...

Answer 1

Get over it and let him live his life the way he wants to. You should except people for what they are not what you think they should be. If you love you brother just respect his decision.

Answer 2

Bummer. Wait until your state of shock has faded...then tell bro that you know his secret. It's the only way to find out firsthand, if you saw what you saw...What if they were just rehearsing for a play?...or something like that...lol. Anyways- you can chose to be a terrific great brother or a jerk one...your choice. No matter how you react- if he is gay- he will stay gay. This is a perfect time to show unconditional love.

Answer 3

Now depending on how old your bro is it could just be experimentation BUT if it's not don't judge bacause if you do it'll more than likely send him into a depression because (I'm just guessing that your parents would be the same way) no one would understand him, or at least he'd feel that way. The he'd end up hating you or your parents. Now I myself am not a homosexual, nor do I have a brother, but I do support anyone trying to just live their own life. Now I'm hoping that you don't hate homosexuals cause if you do that's just child-ish. But my advice for you is to either get over it or you can talk to him and try to make peace with it. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

Naturally you might find that shocking if you never had any inclination he might be gay, but regardless you need to remember one fact. He is your brother. Whatever decisions he might make in his personal life, it doesn't change the cimple fact that he is your brother. If you love your brother and he means a lot to you, then respect him and his decisions. Coming out especially to a family member who didn't know is really hard. Just be there for him.

Answer 5

your brither kissing a guy really has nothing to do with you so don't stress out over it. If he's gay, then he's gay, you freaking out is just going to make it worse for the both of you. Just love him like your brother and don't mistreat him cause he's different than you. It's probably expected to be in shock though too, but just don't freak out and maybe you should talk to your brother aobut it, but remember to be nice and don't antagonize him for being gay if he is!!

Answer 6

It really depends on how close you are to your brother. The most imprtant thing to do in all of this is to keep an open mind. and love him no matter what. but if you two are close, find a mild way to ask about it so he isn't offended and try to be understanding its the best med's in the world.

Answer 7

Regardless of who is kissing, I think a public display is a little hard for some peole and in all honesty is a private matter.

Answer 8

Depends, was it a peck on the cheek? A big wet sloppy one, or was his tongue crammed down his throat? It doesn't matter which, your brother's sexual orientation is his own business, not yours. But if it still bothers you in one week, talk, calmly and quietly about how you feel, but don't expect to hear what you want to hear.

Answer 9

Don't prejudge his actions and don't become angry. If that's the true way your brother feels, then there's not much you can do (heavy counceling and repenting for his "sins" probably isn't the key). Just ask him to explain.

Answer 10

does he know u saw?If he dose then just talk to him about it.dont worry sit down and try not to think about it.has he ever given off sighs he's gay well he may not be ya know like Gerald Way in the video life On The Murder Scene he may not b gay dont freak out okay if this is really bothering you you can email me about it sometimes it helps to vent trust me.