Ok I have this teacher but shes more like a friend nad i told her about how i feel at home and she was really concerned so she talked to the school counselor. The conselor want to know what i want to happen and she said shes will ing to get me out of my house i wanan go but i cant tell her that i wanna go to my teacher/friends house. waht do i do, heres the story:
Ok My mom adn dad scream at me all the time. They tell me im worthless and that they dont care about me. I feel unloved and unwanted there, and my counselor told me that amazingly this isnt teenage stuff what i explained was worse. She said she wanted to help me, and that se would talk to my parents but I think that that would make it worse, she also asked where id wanan go if she could get me outta the house,i cant tell her i wanan go o my teachers house,i thought that would be to weird but i dont get along with any other family member, My couslelor said it was emotional abuse that i was going through, what do i do????
2006-08-30 10:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have you talked with the teacher to see if she is willing to take you in? Maybe that should be the first step. You really don't need to be in the situation you are in. I hope things work out with you. Do you have a friend who's parents might be willing to help? You really need to let the counselor help you..
2006-08-30 10:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing this. Your counselor is right though, that is emotional abuse. You need to speak your mind, it's probably best not to move in with your teacher, but there must be a friend or neighbor maybe that you're close to? I hope that you get this taken care of so that you can feel better not only about this situation but also about yourself.
2006-08-30 17:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I'll tell you, some parents need parenting classes, just think of this, if they didn't care about you, how is it that you are telling the story? I mean, some parents abandon their children, others even kill them.
And I assure you, you'll never be better of at someone else's house than in the one your parents provide for you.
I understand you get hurt and offended, but wouldn't be better if you brought up the issue to your parents ? Give them a chance! tell them how you feel.
I have know some parents that treat their children like that, I think is wrong, but that's the only way they know how.
They think that by treating you like that, they are going to make a better person out of you, it is wrong.
Tomorrow call Dr. Laura @ 1800 Dr Laura.
She'll advice you better than me I.
God Bless you.
2006-08-30 17:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, dear, you may have little choice. I agree you need to get out of the abuse , but you can ask Social Services if you can stay with your teacher if the teacher agrees to Guardianship. I wish you well, no young person should have to go thorough what you are.
2006-08-30 17:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your teacher won't be able to take you in.. This would be a conflict of interest. You have to find another family member or friend that will be will to take you in.. Hard situation to be in good luck
2006-08-30 17:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot go to your teacher/friends house because your parents may accuse the teacher/friend of something nasty and get her in trouble
You should talk to the school counselor about your parents and follow your counselor's advice
2006-08-30 17:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by waplambadoobatawhopbamboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dad also screams at me alot but he does care about me Id tell the counseleor where you want to go if there really your best friend they may adopt you!
2006-08-30 17:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋